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  • lolamalloch
    Junior Member
    • Mar 2013
    • 2

    Crazy about SEX?????

    Second post already... sorry!!
    but I feel like there is something wrong with me, I catch myself day dreaming about having sex at least 30 times a day (not very good with numbers, so maybe more, maybe less!) but pretty much I always think about sex and want it so bad!!!!! I'm a girl though.. i thought boys were supposed to be the HORNY ones! WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME.

  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    There is nothing wrong with you. Boys are horny in general, but each individual is different. Girls are much the same. It doesn't matter what is the upbringing of the person.

    The first question is: have you gone from dreaming about sex to having sex? If not, do you masturbate to release sexual tension? If so, a number of questions arise such as: do you have a boyfriend? Are you using contraception? In either case, how old are you? What are your plans for life?
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • BabyGirl
      Banned
      • May 2010
      • 1665


      JNS,
      This young lady is the one who has a boyfriend that is a Rugby player and she wants to put off / stop her period in 2 weeks ..

      Hi everyone!!
      I'm 18 and recently in a relationship... My boyfriend has been away for rugby for a month or so but I see him again in about 2 weeks.. YAY
      It sounds like we have a young lady that is very new to Sexual Desires ..

      So to lolamalloch,

      It is normal once awakened to want sex allot ... Especially at such a young age.

      The key is to learn your body, Masturbation or Vibrators can take care of the Release of your " needs ".
      When you Bf gets home, you can see ( after your Period or even During it ) if yours and his Sexual Desires match .

      Be cautious of being too " Needy or Demanding ". That may scare him away . Then again , he may like it, but not want to stay together and have you being Used as a piece of Nookie . Time will tell on that ..

      Also, Use a Condom !!!!! No Condom , or BC, No Intercourse !!!
      You have admitted you are Not using BC ( in your other post )

      There is no faster way to have a guy Dump you and move on than if you let him know you are not on BC and have no alternate plan to avoid a Pregnancy .. This is if he does not wish to be a Father or be with you in a Forever Relationship.

      Please remember that Every Time you have Unprotected Sex, with any Male, Boyfriend or even Casual. You have the Risk of not only Pregnancy but also STD's.. BC and Condoms can help prevent this, though for certain STD's even Oral can have you Contact an STD., so BC and Condoms won't help much there . But getting Tested and waiting for the Results , on both of you , can take the risk down .

      You are Young, Sex is Great, but being in a Loving relationship is even Better . Making sure you are Sexually Healthy is even better than just getting out the Urges ..

      Think ahead a bit, what are your future plans as JNS asked .

      Is this Guy the One ,the Forever man in your life or is he just a Crush and " Practice " for a future Love in your life . Does he feel the same ,Are you his One and Only ?

      Don't give out yourself so easily, if he is not the one or you are not the one for him . If he isn't or you are not sure ..
      Try to find the one man you feel is going to last in a relationship. I'd hate to hear, in a later post that you pass yourself around, because of Sexual Desires and are not Protective of yourself and your Sexuality.

      Please Sweetie, Enjoy your Sexual life, but do it Responsibly and with Maturity ..





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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        Thanks, BG.
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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        • shakystart
          Junior Member
          • Mar 2013
          • 1

          Normally girls have more feelings than the boys. They used to hide their feelings. And there is nothing wrong in it.

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          • shoshannah
            Veteran Member
            • Nov 2010
            • 228

            There is nothing wrong with a woman having sexual thoughts and feelings, especially if the relationship is new or she's away from her man for a while. My boyfriend and I are together every night, and I still fantasize about him during the day a fair amount. It's a healthy part of a loving relationship. Try not to worry!

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            • bubba29
              Senior Member
              • Feb 2013
              • 116

              Originally posted by lolamalloch
              Second post already... sorry!!
              but I feel like there is something wrong with me, I catch myself day dreaming about having sex at least 30 times a day (not very good with numbers, so maybe more, maybe less!) but pretty much I always think about sex and want it so bad!!!!! I'm a girl though.. i thought boys were supposed to be the HORNY ones! WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME.

              embrace and cultivate your sexuality. many women (and their partners) are frustrated by the opposite issue. drug companies are spending millions to try to reproduce your problem.

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