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If you are so worried about what your family thinks and feels, and getting pregnant and contracting an STD; I believe that you are not yet ready for sex.

Perhaps just continue to wait until you can get a place of your own so your family won't "find out". Sometimes independence can do a great deal for you. My own take on sex is that if you have worries, you aren't ready. Sex is suppose to be a good thing, not something to stress and worry over. If you are unsure, then don't do it.

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Thank you everyone for helping me sort out my mind.
These are the things me and my bf have decided and he is with me:
1.I will take hpv vaccines first before being sexually active(it was my bf who suggested this).
2.After my vaccination is complete, we will have sex with pills and condom combination.
He is now happier as I am taking a vaccination. He is happy that I am doing something for my health.


Thank you all