[tieta7465]

I stress just a hand job. I am just looking for some sexy techniques to try. My girlfriend tells me she always manages to make her man go wild when giving him a hand job by just prolonging eye contact with a "I gotcha!" type sexy look.

Is this a good way? what do you normally do with your facial expressions and eye contact when giving him a hand job?

[rcoreyus]

Different people like different things. You can ask, or just try. A HJ or BJ can be loving, submissive, or dominant, all a matter of attitude. Different men like different things - the same men may like all of the above at different times.

[jns]

Eye contact can heighten the effect of a hand job.

[margie123]

I agree eye contact seems to do a little something special. I never used to look into his eyes, but eye contact seems more loving & personal. If that's what you want.

[LargeInLife]

the best part of a handjob for me is the fact that the woman can TALK, and be intimate in a whole different way.

So talk to him! Maybe its just me, but I myself will cum in half the time if the woman is telling me sexy things during a handjob, or during sex in general. But in a handjob, you're not panting and bouncing around like sex, and your mouth is free of obstructions like with a bj, so talk to him! The mind is the biggest sex organ in the body, and its true for men too! So tell him a story about a fantasy, maybe you make up a story where you creep in to his office at work, and slip under his desk and stroke him off, or you have him close his eyes and imagine that he's stuck in gridiron traffic and you reach over and give him the best handjob right there in the car with people watching.. this is an opportunity to practice talking dirty and he'll love it.


Getting him off... The most important thing I can tell you about this, is once you feel like he's a couple minutes away from climax, pick one rhythm, whatever the speed or grip you're using, and maintain it until he cums. The most frustrating thing is if he's 20 seconds away is if you pull your hand off because you're sore, he'll lose his edge and it will probably take another few minutes to bring him back to the edge.

Now if you really want to drive him wild, you can use that to your advantage. Bring him to the edge, then stop. Wait a few seconds then bring him back to the edge again, then stop... its called edging. and its like a sexual torture but the final release is incredible, if you really want to see your man shoot the biggest load of cum in his life, edge him a few times and watch the fireworks explode!

Cumshot: don't aim his **** at his face right when he cums, thats not fun and kinda kills the mood. If you're really looking to be a champ, have him cum on your cleavage, or on your face. If you dont want a mess, put your lips on his **** right at the last second and let him cum in your mouth (my personal favorite) or worst case scenario, have him cum in a tissue if you really dont want a mess. Although if he's not a shooter, you can just let him cum in your hands and it won't ruin the furniture.

First the technique. Buy a silicon based lube. Dont waste your time with water based. it gets sticky and it sucks in my opinion. Silicon stays silky and lasts and lasts, its harder to clean off your hands, but an extra minute at the faucet with soap and water and its all gone. Now, something to understand about men, and handjobs is that we're used to giving them to ourselves, and we know what we like. A pointer to give him a better handjob is to ask him to masturbate for you, and watch his rhythm. Pay close attention to right as he's about to cum, because this will give you better insight as to what pushes him over the edge.

Lube him up, more lube is ALWAYS better than less. And keep it flowing throughout the handjob too. It only helps.

I recommend sitting him down on the couch or on a chair, and kneeling in front of him. Its much easier this way than on a bed. Get comfortable, if you need a pillow for your knees then get one, lay a towel down on the couch first for him to sit on so he can spray it all over and it won't ruin the furnitire. Take care of these details first. So make sure you've got your phone on silent, and you've got the door locked, and the dog is secured outside or in the next room, and get the lube, and get a paper towel, and take your jingling bracelets off and your rings and make an experience out of it for eachother.


Guys love hearing a woman talk about their cocks. so talk to him, tell him how much you love it, how hard it is, tell him how big and long it looks, and how you love holding such a nice big ****, and your friends would be jealous blah blah blah, guys will never get tired of hearing that.

If he's got a big ****, start out with one hand stroking, then after a bit, stack your hands up on him like a baseball bat and comment "wow I need TWO hands for you!" we LOVE that. I love the two hand technique to finish me off personally. Also, he he's well endowed, and you think he's feeling particularly hard that day, surprise him with a ruler and bust it out halfway through and ask him if you can measure it. If he's got a big **** and is proud of it, he'll love it. I bet most averaged sized guys would like this too.. Lastly for the guys with big cocks, one of my personal favorites is when I'm laying in bed, and I stroke the bottom half of my ****, and the woman strokes the top half of it. Its very different, and super sexy. I cum super quick that way.

One final tip, posture. Keep your shoulder blades back, try to touch them together when stroking him off, this will actually help your hands to not go numb as quickly.

[Texasred]

I stress just a hand job. I am just looking for some sexy techniques to try. My girlfriend tells me she always manages to make her man go wild when giving him a hand job by just prolonging eye contact with a "I gotcha!" type sexy look.

Is this a good way? what do you normally do with your facial expressions and eye contact when giving him a hand job?

You should focus more on the act than on acting.

[anonimousey]

When you're giving him a hand job, you need to feel sexy, you need to want to do it, and not put on an act.

My boyfriend likes it sometimes when I put a hand on the top of his thigh or the lower part of his stomach at the side (the bit that makes a V).
Sometimes I'll lie sort of on top of him with my head resting on his - this way he can see and touch my boobs and I can feel and hear him pant which I find really sexy.

If you're not comfortable giving hom eye contact, then don't. You'll find yourself making pained expressions because you're uncomfortable. But it'll pass with time.

Try asking your boyfriend what he wants, he might like you to focus your eyes on his penis, or he might like straight, unbroken eye contact