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  • nicolexx16
    Junior Member
    • Mar 2013
    • 9

    Intercourse help!?

    The pain that I am experiencing is on penetration. It feels like it's on the front wall of the vagina. After he's been thrusting for a while, the pain turns more into a burning sensation. Can anyone tell me how I can get this pain to stop? Also, I know that I do not have any STD's. Anything tht could be causing this ? We use tons of lube and foreplay and try different positions.. I'm getting frustrated and upsett
    We tried a small dildo that we were able to get in with little pain. I just don't know what else to do...
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Have you gone to a doctor? Is it possible only part of your hymen is torn and the rest is staying in place?
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • nicolexx16
      Junior Member
      • Mar 2013
      • 9

      I'm afraid to go to the doctor because I feel like it's embarrassing

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      • Little_Man_in_the_Boat
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2008
        • 227

        Are you getting aroused and wet because if you aren't they you need find out why.

        If you just ignore the discomfort it will just get worse.

        If he's well endowed then you need to spend a lot more time on foreplay and this is the same if your average.

        The most important thing is to make sure your ready before he enters you and that means you must be WET.

        So you must make sure that he has spent enough time on foreplay.

        The big mistake for all men is they are just too eager to penetrate and this is fundamentally where it all goes wrong.

        Prolong the penetration as long as possible that's the problem.

        Lube is not like lubricant that your body provides from the Bartholin glands.

        Its always the same on these forums just not enough foreplay.

        Men are just too eager to penetrate before the young ladies are ready.

        If you can be bothered read my other posts for information.

        I can't be bothered writing it out every time.

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        • rcoreyus
          Veteran Member
          • Sep 2007
          • 4369

          Doctors have seen EVERYTHING. They have seen people with injuries from autoerotic activities gone bad. A doctor is NOT going to make you uncomfortable or act shocked at something like this - really.



          Originally posted by nicolexx16
          I'm afraid to go to the doctor because I feel like it's embarrassing

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