[Bitemepg13]

Im 14 years old ive had sex with three different partners ive always wanted to have sex to see wat it felt like. Once i did the first time it felt extremly painful but not good in the sence of pleasure. But i figuerd this would change cuz it was my first then the second time same and third time ...it felt good once not even rly good when he entered me but that didnt last. The only way i ever feel sexually pleased is when i messauge my cliterus ...ive tried to finger myself to see what that feels like but it doesnt feel like aything i do get wet or horny but i dont feel a thing during sex not pain or pleasure.

Someone please help me figuer out whats wrong with me .

[time2discover]

Sex is physical and emotional. You have to be with someone you have
long term feelings for and trust. That will take time. So for now, I would
suggest you wait until you're ready for a long term commitment with
someone and then, when it happens, you will see the difference.
Be patient and take care of yourself in the meantime.
Remember, sex is not a sport or a game you try. It has long term
problems that can be created like sicknesses and pregnancy.
When the right time comes you'll feel a whole lot different.

[jns]

Sex at an age where your body is not fully developed, with inexperienced partners and not in a love relationship? Change those things and maybe it would be better.

The pain is probably because you are not fully aroused. Even fully aroused, some women do not get very wet. The solution is to use store bought lubrication and to be fully aroused by a partner who is willing to take the time to make sure you get there. A love relationship will make everything be that much better. Saving yourself for someone special will make the anticipation heighten everything even more. Waiting for your body to develop will also make having sex more enjoyable. At such a young age, your hips are probably still quite narrow. As you grow older, your hips will widen and your body will be more accommodating for sex.

I hope you are using birth control and condoms for STD control.

[Trisha23]

I think you are rushing into things. You are only 14 and seems too young to enjoy sexual pleasure. It involves emotional attachment also to feel satisfied, not just physical longing.

[Bitemepg13]

I was in love with my last boyfriend ..i was attatched and i was using protection . Now that me nd him broke up i honestu dont no ot cant imgen haveing srx with anyone else its painful To feel this way

[BabyGirl]

I was in love with my last boyfriend ..i was attatched and i was using protection . Now that me nd him broke up i honestu dont no ot cant imgen haveing srx with anyone else its painful To feel this way

I'm sorry that you seem to not have any Parent that you can discuss sexual things with. You need to bring this subject up with an Adult Family Member that is Responsible for you and your Sex Education .

You may have thought you were in Love, but honey you are way too undeveloped ( emotionally ) to know what Love between a Man and Woman , really is .
This is because you are a Child yourself still.

Sex is Not Love .. At your tender age, you are being Raped and Molested, Used and Abused for Sexual Pleasure of a Man/ Boy that has already proven that he does not Love or Care for you . You are Broke up right ? That is Proof right there .

i honestu dont no ot cant imgen haveing srx with anyone else

I am assuming you were saying " I honestly don't know or can't imagine having sex with anyone else ? "

That is something to hold on to and Remember through the years to come. Not having Sex until you are ready, not just physically but Emotionally. Will teach you that you need to be Loved and Respected and Wanted for the Whole You, not just for your Vagina.

Honey, learn to respect yourself, don't be used ever again.
Find a Parent, School Counselor, Adult Family member that is Trustworthy and seek the help and Guidance from them,whom have your best Interest at heart . Women,Boys and " Men " who have Sex with 14 year old Girls ( or Guys ) are Rapists. Not Lovers .

[Chrysanthemum7]

I just think you arent physically or emotionally ready, not mature enough