[Natasha123]

You think alcohol might help me?

[DarkChicks]

I know all these were done back in 2007, but i have the same issues as this woman here, i cant feel a thing during penetration, its like how is this supposed to feel like, i see all these women, make it a big deal, like its something to look forward to, but in my eyes its like wtf where is that feeling, i can get my big o by my self but still cant feel the penis going in and out, nor bob. i had that deep connection with that very special some one, and yet nothing. so if you or any one else on here can help me not to feel like a freak i am asking for your help i guess.

[DarkChicks]

no i dont think it will, after all it did not help me

[Magnetism]

There was a website called the clitoris or something like that where it said some women's vaginas naturally aren't that sensitive, which is why some women don't experience the extreme mythical pleasure associated with penetration.

I agree that a mental/emotional connection definitely helps when something is entering you. Let me give you a few examples if it helps:

In my early 20's, sex was very painful with a man that I had no attraction to and who also treated me poorly. No matter what I tried (lube, porn, etc), the pain wouldn't go away.

In my late 20's, sex stopped hurting with a man that I was attracted to and in love with. My body relaxed and allowed him to enter with no problem. There were times when he did hit my g-spot. It would depend on the position and the day, ha!

When I first bought a vibrator a few months ago, it hurt the first few times. Afterwards, it stopped hurting and started to feel good. I think my body needed to get used to a new object.

[jns]

I think my body needed to get used to a new object.

And your mind.

[SUZE]

he is not doing it right.. try getting on top so you'll have the control and your clitoris will be stimulated,