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  • brae06
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2013
    • 3

    lack of sex drive

    I have never had a high sex drive unless it's a new relationship. but then it goes away. I have been in relationship for six and a half years and is big problem. for him. the sex is great so what is wrong with me? any ideas I can benefit from to help boost my drive? please help.
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Have you been to a doctor? If your hormone levels are off, it could affect your libido. Depression and medication for depression can also affect things. When you are newly in a relationship, certain hormone levels go into overdrive, so you have a high sex drive. When the relationship becomes more mature, those levels drop and your libido disappears. Then the matching of your libido with your partner's also disappears.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • shezz
      Junior Member
      • Apr 2013
      • 4

      lack of sex drive

      I have thyroid problems plus menapause as well so my sex drive has took a nose dive been a long time now

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      • Danapeacock91
        Member
        • Apr 2013
        • 11

        Hope you find some answers, because I'm out on this one too.
        I personally think my hormones are off.

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        • Unlovedgirl
          Junior Member
          • Apr 2013
          • 3

          My boyfriend never wants to have sex

          Okay we'll it's been awhile my boyfriend dosent wanna have sex with me ,I'm 21 he's 28 he says he wants to and that he loves me but he only says it it dosent happen. I never seen him watch porn he says he don't we don't own a computer we both work . I've gotta upset with him a few times over this he says its cause he Cums to fast and can't pleasure me like he wants to witch he does come to fast. I have no clue what to do anymore please some advice

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