[pleasehelp143]

Hi.. I am a girl and have noticed that during sex, i come very.easily within seconds and most of the times without penetration.. Just from my partner stroking me down there...sometimes i climax with just him sucking my breasts:-(. After that i can't go any further...have to wait a good 10 mins .before starting again. I feel im nt able to satisfy my partner as have to stop alt of times..Is that normal??? Please help someone

[bubba29]

how exactly do you feel after orgasm? is anything sexual totally off limits? do you have the same feeling after a second orgasm?

[pleasehelp143]

Yep anything is out of limits:-(..ya feel the same aftr second.. Drives me nuts!

[pleasehelp143]

Meant everything is out of limits

[eugene83]

You might want to get medical help, get yourself checked and make sure it's just a psychological thing.

[bubba29]

Yep anything is out of limits:-(..ya feel the same aftr second.. Drives me nuts!

sounds like you are really orgasmic which isn't a bad thing. the bad part is the needed 10 minute break after the orgasm. i suggest a lot of alone time and masturbating to learn to overcome this or work around it. spend time learning your body.

[pleasehelp143]

Okay will giv it q shot... I was hoping there might be a desensitizing cream for females to last longet like it is der for men?? I there?

Normally wats the average time for a girl to reach O and start again?

[pleasehelp143]

Hi
Im still waitg for someone to get back to me? Appreciate if u can help me sort this out. Thanx heaps

[CHANDLERS WISH]

bubba29's response is spot on.

There are no creams that I can think of in that manner but you can attend a Doctor and discuss it, otherwise, learn about your body as a man does, so he can "stop" the orgasm to please a woman, you are in the same boat...

[Krazy_glu3]

Average time? Not sure. I can have sex and not orgasm at all. Before birth control I would be able to have sex in diff positions but only climax from me being on the top. I guessed it was because of the grinding and penetration combination that I could only get from being on top. Maybe 5 mins of me being on top and I'd be able to climax. If I didnt have sex in other positions, and just started with me on top, Itd take longer for me to. After three diff types of birth control, I havent have an orgasm from sex in a good while.... Doesnt matter to me though because sex alone feels fine. But it depends because I know for me I could have sex for an hour and not orgasm. But if I at least messed around for a while and then got on top, itd take me maybe 5 mins or so. Im sure the have some cream for what you want. I normally just see sensitizing cream ha. I would do what was advised and maybe just work it out with your with masturbation. See if theres any way to make the orgasm wait and the window between orgasming and being able to start again shorter. Have you googled anything about it? Because I KNOW there has to be many other women out there with this situation. Google it and if anything, call your doctor and ask for a talk about it. Or OBGYN? Since they specialize is female parts. Maybe when you orgasm you can just.. "return the favor" for your partner if you are up for that. Maybe that will get your mind of things and help you come back down faster?