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hi folks i am in bad need of sum advice. since having the contraceptiv implant in my arm last week, wen my boyfriend is giving me oral my clitoras feels very sensitive and i cant bare him touchin it for more than a few seconds, i cant even bare touching it myself. could it be caused by the implant. please help as i am worried i may niver have another orgsam again
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hiya,thanks for replyin. yes its only been since having the implant, i foned the clinic today they said they dont think its the implant causing it but they dnt know what it could be. i agree it could be my hormones geting used to the implant so i will wait a few more days and see what happens
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I doubt very seriously it could be the implant. It could be some prolonged irritation or friction on the clit. Sometimes too much stimulation can cause this. Rest it. Stay away from hot sex. When in the bathtub sit in a little warm water and separate yourself so that it is getting the relief of the warm water. Just like any other body part they can bruise. Do not use a vibrator on yourself. Very often your own self stimulation or using a vib can hurt you. Never use the vibrator directly on the clit itself. Tease yourself rather than direct stimulation even if it does feel better. Women must all be careful not to harm this important place in their body and I am sure you will be just fine. But do stay away from sex until this clears up. If you do have sex, have him stay away from it and instead just go for direct penetration where this tiny spot will not be bothered.....Take care, CarolineComment
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thanks 4 replying caroline, it feels abit betr today but we tryd oral again last nite but it just didnt feel right altough i did manage to enjoy some alone time if you know what i mean. my nurse sayd if its still the same in a few days to go to my docs and get some cream but hopefully it wont come to that. and im only 20 so i hope there isnt eny permanent damage. il let u know eni updates and thanks again for getting back to me as i have been very worried
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Good for you for being so careful....You don't ever want to desensitize this special place....Take care, Carolinethanks 4 replying caroline, it feels abit betr today but we tryd oral again last nite but it just didnt feel right altough i did manage to enjoy some alone time if you know what i mean. my nurse sayd if its still the same in a few days to go to my docs and get some cream but hopefully it wont come to that. and im only 20 so i hope there isnt eny permanent damage. il let u know eni updates and thanks again for getting back to me as i have been very worried
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The implant contains hormones. That's how it works. Artificial hormones can reek havoc on your body. More than likely it's a progesterone only implant. The side effects from this hormone can be ugly.
If you have never had this problem before, I would consider checking out the possible side effects of the implant and possibly rethinking your birth control options.Comment
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