[jen1447]

Nothing that comes out of you is bad or shameful or offensive, daisy. If you pee during sex, so what? If your partner is into you and supportive of your sexuality and all its nuances, they should accept it and think it's rather cool, honestly. Maybe work out a 'clear the way' sign when you're about to let go or something like that (assuming they don't want to get caught in the crossfire ).

Training yourself to squirt instead of pee involves learning not to suppress the pee sensation ...but I don't think that's what you're after here.

[Justice]

I read somewhere that you'll have a stronger orgasm if your bladder is full, but I'm a little scared.. you know, I'm enjoying, he's enjoying and i have an enormous urge to pee, and oops.. wet bed :/ so I usually relieve myself before having sex.

But.. Lately even though I pee before having sex, after the sex I MUST go to the bathroom.. Does anyone experienced that?

ddaisy092 - you posted right after me.... since this started for me I have been doing a lot of reading on female ejaculation. For me it felt like the fluid was coming from a lower spot into my vagina. What I read suggested that you urinate before having sex/masturbating. Then the glands (skene's? other) / G-spot being stimulated start building up fluid and it either comes out or ends up in the bladder. While it might come out of the urethra it is not supposed to be the same as urine (different composition). I read that instead of stopping or tightening up (or trying to hold it in) you go with and feel your self "push out".

For me I do not "squirt" or spray like in porn, it comes out in waves as I have little orgasm waves (little "o" vs big "O" - I don't get the same kind of orgasms I was having when I just would get lubricated). It seems like a lot, but I don't think it is as much as I think it happening at the time. Mostly it does not smell like urine and is clearer - but just like a guy, there can be a tiny bit of residual urine.

If you are concerned about how much or whether you would really be peeing, have you considered playing by yourself and just letting go? I think then that you would be able to determine how much,the color (in general urine is not clear) and smell? I don't know if my advice is totally right - others can advise. (I am a "virgin" - though I masturbate a lot lately, and this is newer to me as well. And since I started stimulating anything beyond just my clitoris (and I guess I dilated my vagina) , I have a hard time having the same kind of quick (effective) orgasm that I used to have. On one hand I worry that I won't be able to get back to the quick less messy way to get a release and yes I used to feel like it was more intense if I did not go to the bathroom first. (Now I want to make sure that I am not "just peeing"

[tinyclitt]

Maybe put a waterproof cover over the mattress like they do for little kids. Definitely take time out to pee before having sex. Put down some towels on the bed. If you feel the need to pee while having sex, go ahead and pee. It'll feel good. Whatever you do, don't get all hung up over it. Hang ups will prevent you from enjoying yourself.