[AmIBeingSelfishTowardsMyG]

•Hello Everyone,Thanks so much for taking your time to help me out I just need your opinion on whether I'm being selfish or not? It will only take 3 minutes of your time and you'll make a guy very happy!

•Me and my girlfriend always have s-e-x but she had a knee operation she can still walk and everything,However it just hurts,I'm getting so frustrated as I am always hard,And my girlfriend said "what do you want me to do about it" and I said I don't expect you to do anything,And she said good cause I can't do anything as I had a knee operation,

•She didn't offer me anything,Hand.job,Blow.job anything and it makes me feel like crap as it has been over a week and she doesn't even care how frustrated I am and hard and sore it gets,When I say about master baring she gets even more annoyed,And I have a foot fet.ish and I asked for her can I smell her feet as that would get me off and she wouldn't have to do anything,She just ignored me and I said why did you and she said she was in shock...

•I do everything for my girl,Buy her gifts,love her deeply,look after her,Walk miles to get her food and this is the thanks I get,

•Am I being selfish please give me some advice thank you,

[Element]

You may do things for her, but unless you lay out the quit-pro-quo before doing them and she agreed, it's just you being kind to your woman. She is not obligated to get you off just because you willingly went out to grab dinner for the two of you. You can't hold a kind gesture you willingly do for your girlfriend against her and say she now owes you sexual favors.

She had surgery, she's most likely in pain, needs to focus on herself recuperating so she never has to go through that again. I understand why your penis is not a prerogative to her at this time. You are sexually frustrated, no one enjoys that. She's made her stance perfectly clear. So you have two options; wait until she has a sex drive back. Or break up with her and go sleep with someone else.

[Claret]

You asked "Am I being selfish please give me some advice thank you,"
My answer - "Yes" - grow some compassion, show some maturity, and give your girlfriend a break. You are acting like a spoiled child. Go take care of yourself until your girlfriend is out of pain and wishes to be with you once again.

[jns]

Of course your being selfish. Allow her to recover.