[jayden1411]

well i have been with my man for 2 years now. at first sex was awsome i loved having sex like everyday. i got a depo and after that my sex drive just went completly away. so i got off depo because i hated how it made my weight go up and down. so now i just dont like doin it with him. i really want to have sex randomlly when hes not around and then when it come to havin sex with him at home i get so irratated. he used to always start with forplay but now he dosent do it at all he just askes me can we have sex and i hate it it kinda ****es me off. but sometimes he does try to do like forplay by kissin on and stuff but he does it at times when we cant have sex like 5 mins befor its time to levae for work or like 5 mins befor i gotta get my daughter from daycare or like when she home and woke and playin around. i dont know what to do anymore but i really love him and i want to have lots and lots of sex with him but i just wann a know how to get back into wanting to do it. i have talked to him by the way and for like 2 weeks he tryed to help but it did nothin.


any suggestions would be nice

[rcoreyus]

Have you talked to him about this? Maybe you can mix "quickies" (which can also be fun) with long lovemaking sessions?

[Stillness]

I'm trying to understand. Did your sex drive return after you got off of the depo? How long have you been off?

[jayden1411]

i talk to him about it but we kinds try stuff at first and den it goes back to the same way he always does things

[jayden1411]

no it didnt return i been off for a few months now