[BabyGirl]

Hey, Butterfly.
As I mentioned in the How can I ever Swim Thread .

My Daughter ( 23 ) is more of a " Asexual/ Pan Sexual " I think she called it ?
Understanding that you are having an Issue or Changes within yourself .
She Wisely beyond her years, advised that you may need to seek Emotional Therapy.

Which in her Young 23 year old mind, Is Not Mental Therapy or a Physical Therapy

It is a Soul Therapy. Non Religious Non Agnostic. Just her own Spiritual.

She says,It is Accepting What you are First.
Hard to do sometimes in this confusing world .
And Her Word is Human.

A Human !!

After the " Human " comes the Type of Human, Male Female, Gender Disordered, Physically Challenged or Deformed. Mentally Challenged or Deformed or Diagnosed . And " Normal ".

This is Only a Basic " Label " of who You Are .

She said to ask you " WHO ARE YOU " ?

Can you Define Yourself as Woman,Man or a Transgender, Gay, Bi,Lesbian ?
Or as she is asking to me. " Who are you to You " ?

I really do not think she is Insensitive to the " New Generation "
More into it or Explanatory of the Differences That we all have these days.

[antsinmypants26]

You seem like such a lovely person, and I just know that someday you will find someone who makes you feel completely beautiful in your own skin. All it's going to take is patience, trust, and the right timing. Don't give up, and don't feel defeated. You have people here you can turn to when you need to talk, including myself! Keep your head up.

[lostbutterfly]

Hi Babygirl, Thank you so much for all the help you have been offering me your Daughter sounds very wise beyond her years, i know i have to accept myself before any body else will i guess, its tricky to know how i identify myself, i would have to say as a woman right now. A lot has changed for me over the past 3 years or so, in the early days i hated everything that was happening to me, to a state of nearly committing suicide It was hard for me as i had no idea what was happening, i felt i was turning into a woman for no reason, it was a relief when i was given the news that i was intersex. I now admit that when i started to understand my changes and actually find them interesting in a way then it helped me accept who i was becoming, i know the hormones have effected me psychologically aver the past few years and that may of helped in me accepting that i want to be a woman now, there are so many things i actually like about who im becoming and i feel i now do accept and know who i am. But getting there and getting others to accept it is a different matter. This forum is a great start and again you have been so kind and helpful as have many of you and it has made a huge impact on me, Thank you x

Hi Antsinmypants, thanks for your reply and kind words x

He Sexeman, just wondered who your thanking lol ?