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  • miranda1
    Junior Member
    • Jun 2013
    • 1

    Female ejaculation, or urine?

    I've been masturbating for years now, and usually during clitoral stimulation, I'll have the urge to pee so I'll stop masturbating. But today, I decided to continue and I believe I reached my first orgasm through masturbation. My breathing kind of stopped, my back arched off the floor and my entire body was shaking. It lasted for about 10-15 seconds and through out the whole thing, I kind of pushed (sort of like I was giving into that urge to pee) like I've been told to do through other health forums, and I wet myself. There was a huge puddle all over the floor and it sort of smelled like urine. I know for sure that I don't have a bladder problem though! Don't get me wrong, it felt incredible, but I just want to know if this is ejaculate (because I believe I did have an orgasm) or was this just urine? Thanks!
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    The best thing to do is to completely empty your bladder before you start to masturbate.
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    • CoolBreeze
      Senior Member
      • May 2013
      • 112

      It is good that you can squirt by clitoral stimulation only. Normally one needs to be properly stimulated internally to trigger that. The feeling is almost analogous to that of having the urge to pee, so don't worry about it. With time you will be able to discern between both. What jins mentioned above is a good idea to empty your bladder before any self pleasure session. Keep your self well hydrated throughout the day. A balanced diet also helps in the long run. Squirting means that you are accomplishing something very beautiful and complete. Congrats and happy diddling all the way.

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      • chaya
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2010
        • 1819

        There was a huge puddle all over the floor and it sort of smelled like urine. I know for sure that I don't have a bladder problem though! Don't get me wrong, it felt incredible, but I just want to know if this is ejaculate (because I believe I did have an orgasm) or was this just urine?
        Sounds like you answered your own question. If it were ejaculent fluid, would there be a "huge puddle that smelled like urine"?

        The 2 times this happened to me I am certain it was urine. One time I was alone the other time, I was having sex with my husband. Lucky for me there wasn't much in my bladder so he didn't knew I had peed on him.
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