[CHANDLERS WISH]

I think the fact that you mentioned that, about your cousin, means you are curious as to why this occurs, as in how other people think of it and want to interact in conversation with him as you probably can't talk to others about your situation.

I think it happens more than we know...

Kids are curious and attraction is attraction.

If that is what you are feeling? Then I wouldn't be shy to be assertive to discuss in general incest but how is another story ...

[LisaW1991]

I think the fact that you mentioned that, about your cousin, means you are curious as to why this occurs, as in how other people think of it and want to interact in conversation with him as you probably can't talk to others about your situation.

I think it happens more than we know...

Kids are curious and attraction is attraction.

If that is what you are feeling? Then I wouldn't be shy to be assertive to discuss in general incest but how is another story ...

Yes, what you say is true to some degree because my cousin and I first started had sexual contact when I was 11 and it continued, but we didn't start having sex until I was 14. I was willing to have sex sooner than that, but he was very hesitant and prefered we limit our encounters to oral sex and sleeping the night together. Even though we are cousins, he is always seemed like a brother to my sisters and I, so while technically we were kissing cousins, it was more like of a brother-sister relationship. When we did start having sex, it was pretty intense, and it does remind me of what I hear through the wall when my neighbor has sex with his sister.

[a_dub]

In a lot of societies - such as the one my parents are from - first cousins are legally allowed to marry. In fact in some classes, its the accepted norm to marry the children of your parents' siblings. One reason is that it keeps property and inheritance in the family instead of bleeding it out to others.

But actual siblings having relations of any sort is not accepted in any society that I know of.

I've had cousins I've had the hots for before. I had a serious crush on my mom's cousin who is only 3 years older than me since I was a kid. I still think she's hot, I'm 30 now and she's only 33. But its weird from the perspective that her grandmother is my great-grandmother. I also had a huge childhood crush on my uncle's wife...who is not at all blood related to me, but thats taboo due to the age difference. I only got over the crush because she's around 50 now, and not nearly as attractive as she was when she was 30.

But your own flesh and blood sister? Eww, gross, and hell no! I don't mean to offend anyone, but that is just too much vomit everywhere.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Yes, what you say is true to some degree because my cousin and I first started had sexual contact when I was 11 and it continued, but we didn't start having sex until I was 14. I was willing to have sex sooner than that, but he was very hesitant and prefered we limit our encounters to oral sex and sleeping the night together. Even though we are cousins, he is always seemed like a brother to my sisters and I, so while technically we were kissing cousins, it was more like of a brother-sister relationship. When we did start having sex, it was pretty intense, and it does remind me of what I hear through the wall when my neighbor has sex with his sister.

Where is your relationship now? Meaning can you speak to him without even speaking, some form of a bond?

I think that kids are experimental and I am glad he didn't do anything at 11. But I think if you have a close bond with a cousin, as a mate they feel you feel more comfortable in the exploration.

Sounds like you and him had a very big bond, and an intense sexual desire.

It strengthens your comment of what you hear reminds you and what you know, is what you know and this is why you are curious.

I know of a lot that have had this encounter if not with their first cousins, their second I think there is a safety net there? They are family.

No judgement, both are equal in this, and blame if there is such a thing.. But a memory of what is forbidden and the rebel likes forbidden.

[CoolBreeze]

Lisa as long as there are no medical issues involved, what two adults do consensually between themselves should not, in principle, have any bearing upon someone else. Just remember that poor is the soul whose pleasures are hostage to the taboos and restrictions created by others.

[LisaW1991]

Where is your relationship now? Meaning can you speak to him without even speaking, some form of a bond?

I think that kids are experimental and I am glad he didn't do anything at 11. But I think if you have a close bond with a cousin, as a mate they feel you feel more comfortable in the exploration.

Sounds like you and him had a very big bond, and an intense sexual desire.

It strengthens your comment of what you hear reminds you and what you know, is what you know and this is why you are curious.

I know of a lot that have had this encounter if not with their first cousins, their second I think there is a safety net there? They are family.

No judgement, both are equal in this, and blame if there is such a thing.. But a memory of what is forbidden and the rebel likes forbidden.

We do have a very special connection that kinda has always been there and remains very strong still, having sex took our connection to a new level that only sex can do between two people.

We started being sexual when I was 11, but that was just typical pre-teen exploration such as kissing and getting nude under the blankets. Whenever we had a family sleep over I would get into bed with him. I just remember wanting to be physically close, and wanted to share myself with with him. At that age I was pretty clueless about sex and didn't understand my own sexual feelings and I mostly just did what came naturally and what I felt comfortable with. I quickly discovered that when my body became sexual aroused it made my emotions more intense, and I very much enjoyed those intense feelings. I think it took a while for my mind and awareness to catch up with it all (1-2 years); in my journal I wrote some pretty crazy\nieve stuff about sex, boys, and life in general. It practically was all fantasy land. At age 11 I would have loved to have gotten married, had a baby, and lived happy every after, just like in the movies.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I think we all find some guy when young that we seem to bond more with, I had a lot of guy friends because I was a Tom Boy.

I get the emotions thing and the feeling of that, so young we then dream

[Kimmymango]

funny how i came across this forum today, i am in the exact same situation as lisa in the original post. So basically i've somewhat become intrigued with the fascination of incest after having seen my neighbours in the act. About 2 weeks ago for the first time i,ve witnessed a mother and son doing the deed and a few more times since. From my bedroom window i had a very clear view, so there is no doubt about what ive seen. Initially i found it totally disgusting we've been neighbours for years, i know the family quite well and grew up with the sister. I understand how wrong this is but i do try to catch a few glimpses when they forget to drop the shutters. Its crazy how dysfunctional people can be when they think no one is looking in.

[Texasred]

He just doesn't know my sister and I can hear them having sex when she spends the weekend.

You might drop a subtle hint like, "I hope my music doesn't keep you awake a t night - I know the walls are pretty thin in these apartments!"
or less subtle: "I hope you can't hear everything going on in my apartment, these walls are so thin!"

[Texasred]

I didn't realize how old this thread was when I posted here yesterday. So, now this tevived thread is about real incest - and peering in the neighbors windows...