[Lovcookie]

I ask because my GF has brought up the fact she would like another night with another female she has in mind and myself. This will be the third time it has happened. When I originally met my GF last year she did not seem like the type that would be this sexually open. After a few months in our relationship one of her out of town friends stayed over and one of the last days of her stay it happened. Just recently I came home and she had a friend over for coffee and it happened again. I believe I am comfortable with it. Goodness it is fun at the time of action. Just been thinking if this is good over the long run. I know now my GF has a strong bi sexual side to her. She says she is straight with a bi urges. Just wondering if the desire for wmw threesome is more common then I thought. I would have thought a woman would rather have mwm threesomes. Then again she knows I have no interested in one of those. I realize I should be happy that she always includes me lol. At least I think she does. She does not mind going in public with unshaven legs but I am not sure if that means anything or not.

How many woman would try a wmw threesome for fun now a then? How many would prefer a mwm threesome. How many would never consider one and only want sex with their man?

[antsinmypants26]

I personally would kick any girls ******* that even came close to my boyfriend, but that's just me. If I had to choose I'd rather have a mwm threesome but personally I wouldn't want to bring anyone else into the bedroom let alone be penetrated by another man. I think that risks breaking any real bond you have with your partner in the long run but it's your choice to decide based on how serious you two are. Does it bother you that she may be sleeping with women normally on the side or may have the desire to make this a regular thing?

[lissy73]

I personally would kick any girls ************** that even came close to my boyfriend, but that's just me. If I had to choose I'd rather have a mwm threesome but personally I wouldn't want to bring anyone else into the bedroom let alone be penetrated by another man. I think that risks breaking any real bond you have with your partner in the long run but it's your choice to decide based on how serious you two are. Does it bother you that she may be sleeping with women normally on the side or may have the desire to make this a regular thing?

Totally agree!!! Maybe I'm old fashioned, but in a committed relationship I regard the above as cheating.

[CoolBreeze]

Threesomes or moresomes manifest themselves on the basis of a strong, healthy and developed sexuality along with a secure emotional quotient. It means that you and your partner are already secure about your relationship and have a strong bond to experiment in such waters. I don't know what is the ratio of women who would go there but once you have ensured that the physical and mental aspects have been taken care of, this could be the best experience of your life. As a side note don't over look the issues of hygiene and STD prevention when you are experimenting with other infrequent partners. Wish you all the best.

[caster]

If she has a strong bi tendency you'll never get her to repress them, so either go with the flow or move on from her.
As a guy it sounds like fun in the short term, long term I don't think I'd be able to sustain it.

[BabyGirl]

Just wondering if the desire for wmw threesome is more common then I thought. I would have thought a woman would rather have mwm threesomes. Then again she knows I have no interested in one of those.

No and Never will happen that I Share with " Others " for Sexual Gratification. !!
Drunk, Sober , Preening, Fame, Ho Ho, No Way !!

It may be an " Age " Difference or how I was raised. Now closing on 60
But in order for me to have Sex ( once I was able to chose my Sexual Partners,long Story of Rape and Abuse )

It was and is a Trust and Respect and Desire that I gave/give my Body up for.

It is not a " Commodity " .
That can be used at Whim, Traded, Abused,Taken,Demanded or Disrespected. In order to have that Willingness to offer such a Precious and Private Part of one's Body.
Child or Adult.

With Me.. Takes more than a Sexual " Thrill or Orgasm or Duty " to Perform .It takes a Connection, a Caring , a Bonding and wanting to Share and Learn Together !!

I am a Mammal, not an Animal. Animals don't have Sex for Pleasure, they do it to Procreate. People do it for " Pleasure".
Again , I'm Older and " Simpler or maybe just learned that Love is More Important than " Sexual Gratification ".

And in a Non Judging way ..

Then again she knows I have no interested in one of those.

If you are just into the 3 way for Sexual Gratification .
Why not 2 Men on your One Woman ?

What if She was Turned On by you being " Bi/ Gay Curious " and here having an Interest in you liking other Men doing her ?

Can you see where this may lead ?

You are already Questioning her " Bi " and you " Sharing " or more like you Performing for Her.

The Next Question is ..
Can you handle any of the Situations you asked us ?

Would there be limits ?
Weight, Height, Diseases, Illness .

Just Curious like you are .
Kinda, but I think I know the Answers ..

If so What kind of "Limits " ?

[Lovcookie]

My GF admits she is turned on from both sides of the coin. She loves to get physical attention now and then from a female and to give back. She also says she loves to watch me give pleasure to anther woman. Part of the time she watches and part of the time she gets involved. She does not seem jealous at all.

She has not pressed me to have a mwm threesome. I like think what I am afraid of is if the other man wants to touch me in a sexual way. The thought of that is repulsive to me. Could I accept him having intercourse with her in front of my eyes?...good question. I think it would depends on my mood at the time. Maybe I have to experience it to see how I would react but really I have no desire to be touched or touch a guy. If one day she insists on it I will cross the bridge when it comes. The most I would do is watch and touch her only.

As for safe sex. She knows two of the three woman very well and she has no concerns of STD. I met this new woman tonight. Nothing happened yet. My GF says she is attracted to her classy nature and the way she dresses, she has a great body and that fact she is blonde. My GF is Asian. The other two were Black and Latino. She likes different favors it seems. Nothing wrong with that. Anyways I am surprise how easy I have accepted this.

[CoolBreeze]

My GF admits she is turned on from both sides of the coin. She loves to get physical attention now and then from a female and to give back. She also says she loves to watch me give pleasure to anther woman. Part of the time she watches and part of the time she gets involved. She does not seem jealous at all.

She has not pressed me to have a mwm threesome. I like think what I am afraid of is if the other man wants to touch me in a sexual way. The thought of that is repulsive to me. Could I accept him having intercourse with her in front of my eyes?...good question. I think it would depends on my mood at the time. Maybe I have to experience it to see how I would react but really I have no desire to be touched or touch a guy. If one day she insists on it I will cross the bridge when it comes. The most I would do is watch and touch her only.

As for safe sex. She knows two of the three woman very well and she has no concerns of STD. I met this new woman tonight. Nothing happened yet. My GF says she is attracted to her classy nature and the way she dresses, she has a great body and that fact she is blonde. My GF is Asian. The other two were Black and Latino. She likes different favors it seems. Nothing wrong with that. Anyways I am surprise how easy I have accepted this.

yes of course, she will eventually find that both sides of the coin always give more and better pleasure. You are lucky to have such an open minded partner. It wouldn't harm if you also tried to extend your horizons from a wmw to an mwm accordingly, subject of course to her complete consent and comfort. I can tell you that if both you work in tandem then you will end up having one hell of a great and sensual sex life. A rarity that doesn't come along often.
I am glad that you have sorted out the logistical issues.
I think you meant different flavors above That's nice.

[Little]

Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. It's awkward, it's no fun for anybody, and you end up either desperately confused or treating the other person like a moving, breathing sex toy.

Granted, my experiences were as the 3rd person, when the other two were in a relationship. I can't possibly know for sure what the couples were thinking, but they seemed like they did not enjoy the experience as much as they thought they would.

Consider too the quest to find another woman to have sex with the two of you. (She might have someone in mind!) If it's a stranger, good luck finding somebody. If it's somebody you know, how do you handle things going forward? Is it a continuing thing? Who touches who? When?

As a bisexual woman, I have to say that the desire to have sex with women is totally 100% suppressible ... for me. I am a green-eyed monster and cannot handle non-monogamous relationships. I'm having sex with one person, and I didn't pick that person on the basis of gender. I don't "need" to have sex with other women any more than I "need" to have sex with other men.

Figure out what you're expecting from a relationship. Monogamy? Polyamoury? Possible sex with other people, but not emotions? How flexible are you about it? Discuss your expectations and flexibility with your girlfriend: it's a good place to start.

[CoolBreeze]

Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. It's awkward, it's no fun for anybody, and you end up either desperately confused or treating the other person like a moving, breathing sex toy.

Granted, my experiences were as the 3rd person, when the other two were in a relationship. I can't possibly know for sure what the couples were thinking, but they seemed like they did not enjoy the experience as much as they thought they would.

Consider too the quest to find another woman to have sex with the two of you. (She might have someone in mind!) If it's a stranger, good luck finding somebody. If it's somebody you know, how do you handle things going forward? Is it a continuing thing? Who touches who? When?

As a bisexual woman, I have to say that the desire to have sex with women is totally 100% suppressible ... for me. I am a green-eyed monster and cannot handle non-monogamous relationships. I'm having sex with one person, and I didn't pick that person on the basis of gender. I don't "need" to have sex with other women any more than I "need" to have sex with other men.

Figure out what you're expecting from a relationship. Monogamy? Polyamoury? Possible sex with other people, but not emotions? How flexible are you about it? Discuss your expectations and flexibility with your girlfriend: it's a good place to start.

I found this very interesting particularly the second last paragraph. Perhaps we could talk about discretely afterwards.