[Calidiscopio]

Hey all,

Long time lurker but I decided to finally register and post. I've been in a relationship for 8 months and its been great. The only issue is that I don't come during sex. I never have. It feels GREAT but I just don't get that far. I usually get off by grinding against him before or after we do the deed. I'm fine with it - he gets worried that he's not satisfying me enough. He's said that every girl he's been with has come during sex (I did tell him they likely faked it, at least some did, as its not very common that just penetration can get a girl off.)

Today I was on top, not new but I don't do it every time. I felt the build up, the tension, temp increase and ragged breathing. Then tingles all over, and then all the sensations were gone. I was very wet after that, usually I only get that wet when I come.

It wasn't the mindblowing O.M.G sensation that I usually feel. But it had everything else.

I've struggled with having orgasms through sex (oral or vaginal) and I've never had one with anyone ever, until now?

I guess the key is to be on top...

Thoughts?

[lotos]

For me the orgasm from the intercourse is a lot different from the one when the clitoris is stimulated. I've always had troubles reaching orgasm just from intercourse and for me the cow girl position is the best because I am in control and I can move and change the pace so I can get an orgasm. And it feels similar to what you've described.

Have you tried stimulating the clitoris during the intercourse? Sometimes I do it, sometimes my partner does it and I can reach orgasm much easier and it is much more powerful. Try it.

[Calidiscopio]

I've tried stimulating my clitoris during sex but I find its not very effective (even though that's how I get myself off pretty easily).

I can say with 100% certainty that what I experienced was not an orgasm but very very close to one. I actually had a full on real one Wednesday night it was fabulous to finally experience that. And yes - totally different sensation than an orgasm from my clitoris!

[jns]

Sometimes things take a little working on to get the technique right. Continue experimenting.

When you had one Wednesday were you on top?

[Calidiscopio]

Yep I was.