[Ieshia]

I have never had a guy finish inside of me but I've been on birth control for 5 years now and think i'm finally ready and comfortable with my boyfriend finishing inside me. My only concern is how do I clean up after? Would I have to get up and go straight to the bathroom after? Will i be dripping after and if so for how long? And how exactly do I clean up after?

[Claret]

It does come out over a period of several minutes to several hours. You can clean up in the shower or by using toilet paper, but that won't get it all. Wear panty liners if you have to go out somewhere or if you are concerned about staining your undies or clothing. As for myself, I loved the feeling that I felt with it inside me. If I could have kept it inside me I would have.

[HisGirl]

Some comes out on the sheets when you sit up. If you want it gone, pee afterward and then take a shower. If you can't get to a shower, just wipe as best you can. There's no better feeling than having his come run down my inner thighs when I stand up. Enjoy.

[AudyJoXoXo]

I clean up after every time just because I feel I need to. Lol. Just go into the restroom, I normally keep my legs tight as I walk so not to drip, and then clean up either in the shower or with a washrag/toilet paper. I clean on the inside to just to get it all.

[Bettie]

I'm glad to see this post because I'm getting married soon and am not sure how to handle this. I can hardly wait for him to be inside me and cum but what to do about the mess? I guess I'll go into the bathroom to take care it. I've heard peeing after sex helps prevent bladder infections.

[shoshannah]

1) Embrace the mess. Sex involves semen and mess. Try not to get uptight about it. Having your man come to orgasm inside you, having part of him merge with you, maybe even feeling the ejaculation, is incredibly bonding and sensuous. There's always the shower and the washing machine afterwards. :-)

2) Have wash cloths on the night stand. Kleenex will work but you can also get pieces of it inside you when it tears.

3) Make love on a towel.

4) Depending on position, more or less of the semen will leak out immediately, or when he takes his penis out. You can be ready to catch it with a wash cloth then.

5) Hold a wash cloth between your thighs and do the "penguin walk" to the bathroom. More will come out if you are on the toilet. Try doing Kegels to help more come out.

6) Have extra liners available the next day. Enjoy the slightly drippy feeling as a reminder of last night's loving and let it make you look forward to tonight. :-)

[Stillness]

I've heard peeing after sex helps prevent bladder infections.

We've had this problem multiple times. I don't really understand why. My cousin is an OB-GYN and says that women have a short urinary tract. I don't think it ever happens if my wife pees. We've tried to make sure she remembers to get up and goes after.