I'm a virgin and I cant insert a finger into my vagina, there is nowhere for it to go it just feels like it hits a wall. I went for a smear test today and it REALLY HURT! The doctor said I was extremely tight and told me to relax but I was relaxed. She told me my muscles were clenching. I'm wondering could I have vaginismus or do you think it just hurt so bad because it broke my hymen and it's the first time anything has gone up there?
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It sounds as though you may indeed have Vaginismus, but only a professional would be able to validate this. Why didn't you ask your doctor what the issue was while getting your pap smear? Regardless, there are things that can be done for this condition if you do indeed have it, so hang in there. -
I agree, and I think you have it. I would definitely go see a doctor and see what they say. I would also recommend using clitoral stimulation, that may help your muscles relax a little more.Comment
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