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  • Bettie
    Junior Member
    • Jun 2013
    • 3

    What if I don't want to swallow?


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    I like giving blow jobs to fiance but would rather not swallow - what do others like me do? Do you spit it out into a washcloth or ?
    Last edited by Alison H.; 02-10-2021, 05:29 PM.
  • Element
    Veteran Member
    • Jun 2012
    • 308

    If the taste gets bad then I let it just go onto my chest. My man is a boob man, so it still works for him. Cleaning up is easy; wet wipe or a washcloth.

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    • Starlit
      Junior Member
      • Jul 2012
      • 3

      Guys apparently have a point a few seconds before they orgasm, and once you get him past it he'll ejaculate no matter what. So you can have him warn you when he reaches it, then just take your mouth away and he will still ejaculate without any further input from you.

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      • rcoreyus
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2007
        • 4369

        The goal is not for him to ejaculate, but for him to enjoy it. What part of a BJ men enjoy depends completely on the person. It does make sense to ask, since you may be doing something you don't particularly like, and which doesn't matter to him.

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