[quiteone]

I am 19 and just started having a serious boyfriend. he loves me to give him head (I really just learned how to) Now he wants to have an orgasm in my mouth and for me to swallow. Since I have never done this (although I am open to such) what should I expect and how should I do this without choking or gagging?

Thanks

Erica in Dallas

[HisGirl]

This is my favorite sex act by far- maybe I'm a freak but whatever. Once his head starts to swell in your mouth, just be ready to receive. Don't be nervous or anxious about it. It's just fluid, it's nothing gross like some might think. Since you are already open to the idea then chances are you won't gag. It's warm. It's semi-thick but not too much (think warm salad dressing). Though I guess consistency and pressure of release varies across men- you wont really know until you experience him. I would say don't drive him too deep when you know he's about to come and just let it fill your mouth and then one big swallow should take care of it.

Just remember that once he starts to come, don't stop immediately. Keep stroking, sucking (whatever you're doing that he obviously likes) to work him all the way through his orgasm.

Even if you don't like your first taste of him, don't give up on it completely. It often gets better over time and with practice.

[EricNYU]

Um, what she said.

[MCR100]

This is my favorite sex act by far- maybe I'm a freak but whatever.

Definitely not a freak, this is my favorite too. Turns me on like crazy knowing I gave him all that pleasure.

As for choking or gagging, just keep relaxed and enjoy.

[quiteone]

Thanks. Sometimes some reassurance helps.

Erica

[Sufia]

I like to give my husband blowjob. Its very hot and The taste of semen fluid is very good to me.

[quiteone]

I will let you know the results . This weekend will be the big moment.

Erica

[CoolBreeze]

Don't worry and enjoy the experience. HG has given good practical advice above. Just make sure you don't allow anyone to have you do something, which you are hesitant about. You can start slowly, swallowing is not for beginners so you must give your self some time. Make sure if you are fulfilling your bf's fantasies then he is reciprocating the same. Never allow it to be a one way street.

[PamelaMorgan-Ameriplan]

Best way to go about it is to just relax. If you tense up then that will cause your throat muscles to tense up which could cause you to gag. Rather, focus on enjoying the experience. And as said above, don't give up if the first time it doesn't taste very good. The taste has a lot to do with the man's diet so it can change accordingly.

[starjoy08]

I have to say that I have tired this. I really didn't like it when he came in my mouth. My husband would love to come in my mouth but I just don't like it. He is ok with it. If you don't like it just be honest. Make sure it is a give and take relationship! He should be making you happy too, and always be safe!