Its been years since I have been able to get my husband to come in the cowgirl position. Don't get me wrong, I can **** the **** out of him, but I've had trouble with the angles in this position in recent years. We both enjoy this position because I can reach orgasm pretty easily with it and he likes the view. But we normally use it as foreplay and move to a different position for his own finish. He's gained some weight over the years and its changed how I move on him. There's a big size difference between us, he's 6'1" and weighs 253 pounds and I'm 5'5" and weigh 127 pounds, so I can barely straddle over him let alone get good leverage and thrust going. He needs a good amount of thrust and force to reach orgasm, but all I've been able to manage is a slow grind, which does have its merits....
But being the perfectionist that I am I thought to myself, I gotta find a way to make this man come. Last night I changed my angle and weight entirely. While I was on top, I started out using the slow grind but then I put my hands on his chest holding my arms straight placing my weight on his chest so that i was leaning at a forward angle. He said I didn't feel heavy at all to him. That let me lift my butt up more and I was able to drive down and back and get the thrust he needed. And success! We did it the same way this morning just to see if last night was a fluke, and success again! I feel very accomplished lol !
I know we weren't the only couple that had this issue in this position. I've read threads on here about it. So I just wanted to share and ask if others use this position at all and if you use it as a lead into the main event or as the main event itself? What successes have you had with it?
But being the perfectionist that I am I thought to myself, I gotta find a way to make this man come. Last night I changed my angle and weight entirely. While I was on top, I started out using the slow grind but then I put my hands on his chest holding my arms straight placing my weight on his chest so that i was leaning at a forward angle. He said I didn't feel heavy at all to him. That let me lift my butt up more and I was able to drive down and back and get the thrust he needed. And success! We did it the same way this morning just to see if last night was a fluke, and success again! I feel very accomplished lol !
I know we weren't the only couple that had this issue in this position. I've read threads on here about it. So I just wanted to share and ask if others use this position at all and if you use it as a lead into the main event or as the main event itself? What successes have you had with it?
Anyway, I have been known to use firm pillows or rolled up towels, blankets etc. under my knees to get some oomph. Also, reverse cowgirl comes with more ways to get leverage (his legs & feet etc.) Also a headboard you can grab with your hands in this position is quite helpful too. But yes, I have had issues. I can climb up there just fine but gotta have a way to move. I also like a (sturdy) recliner. Can recline him and brace my shins on the nicely padded rolled armrests. Yay!
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