[Brad90]

Hi all,

I'm back with another stupid question.

I lost my virginity about three months ago, so I'm still learning. My girlfriend and I have been using the missionary position some, but there's one problem with it. What's the easiest way for me to rub her clitoris in that position? Is it simply a case of me holding myself up with just one arm (which I can't do for long), or is there some simpler way of doing it?

[jns]

I don't think there is a way to do what you want to do in missionary position.

[HisGirl]

This isn't a stupid question. It would be hard for you to hold your weight like that for very long. She could use her hands to stimulate herself in that position. Or....we don’t do missionary that often because it isn’t our favorite position, but what my husband and I do sometimes is you would bring her to the point right before orgasm before you start missionary. Then enter her and spread her vaginal lips so that her clit is exposed and then grind into her with your pelvis while you’re thrusting. It does limit your range of motion some but it works for us. After she reaches orgasm then you can go back to the motion that works for you.