[Double-Entendre]

Hey Ladies,
I have been in a committed, live-in relationship for 3 years +. I love my boyfriend and don't want to imagine my life without him..
He's very kinky! Like with toys and such, we've even tried pegging! But when it comes right down to it...we've somehow lost our passion for the bedroom. We rarely have sex anymore and when we do its lack luster at best. I am totally bored and unsatisfied! To be honest...there's no foreplay really at all...unless you consider him checking to see if I'm lubricated before insertion... Which I certainly don't! Feeling lost! Please help!

[rcoreyus]

If he is "kinky" then presumably he is open to a variety of things to do in bed. Have you told him what you would like?

[Beccalouise]

Perhaps consider having sex outside of the bedroom? Whether it's other rooms in the house or even in public. I assume that could maybe spice things up and make sex more exciting. I know it does for me and my boyfriend when we're home alone and have sex in other rooms in the house

[Marie123]

You're going to have to learn how to have good communication about sex with him. All couples need to be able to plainly state what they want and need in the bedroom. The open communication actually makes the sex better in the long run!

[jns]

Has he lost his sex drive or is he spending it on something else, such as porn? As far as what you get out of it, did he ever do much as foreplay?