[jslater]

The key to great sex is to not stress about it... It's supposed to be fun. If you truly care for one another... the intimacy is already there, you just now have to express it. Just search "sexual positions" in Google and click away if you want to learn about new positions. Since you and your partner have mostly been doing missionary... Spooning is a great position. Basically he lies next to you... Your back to his chest. He lowers himself enough to enter you from behind (not anal), this way he could hold you close and make love to u. He can feel your entire body with his hand and you can really feel each other breathe. Beats missionary every time in my opinion. Once he is inside you for a while, you can roll onto your stomach, with him turning with you as he continues to thrust. Your now in a variation of doggy style. The beauty of sex is just to keep experimenting and enjoying each other. Have fun!

[LilahX]

There is definitely more intimacy when you're face to face but there's a lot of fun to be had with other positions as well. If you can get to the mindset where you enjoy 'intimate' sex as well as 'hot and heavy' sex then the world will be your position oyster. Talking about a rauncy session afterwards can create the intimacy that might not have been there during the act. But even in something like 'doggy' he can caress your back, kiss your neck, stroke your neck. You don't need eye contact to convey feelings of closeness and love. Personally, when we do stuff that is pure lust it is just as intimate b/c we're sharing something very special. Good luck.