[panda1989]

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we have a great sex life except that he doesn't go down on me. I'm a very sexual person and I really enjoy him going down but he has done this only 3-4 times in the past. It is very frustrating. A few months ago we were talking dirty to each other and he asked if I would enjoy it if another guy went down on me. I said that it would turn me on as long as the guy was hot and if he was ok with it. He said that it would turn him on watching me get pleasured.

Ever since, we have a fantasy of another guy going down on me and making me cum. We're thinking about going to a swingers club and trying it out. We are a very attractive couple. I'm 24, 5'1, 110 lbs, 34DD so I know that there would probably be a line of guys that would want to play.

In return, I would not have sex or give oral. I would be fine with the guy jacking off on me or giving him a hand job at most. My boyfriend would be ok with it as long as the guy didn't cum on my face. I'm wondering what guys would want in return if they were to go down on me and make me cum. Is that a fair trade? I don't know what to expect. Any replies or feedback would be appreciated.

[a_dub]

I'm a guy who's single and if you are as hot as you say you are and if you're clean, I'd definitely be down to do it in return for some dome. Gotta be a 1 for 1 trade. No freebies.

[kira]

Usually it's oral for oral but if you are hot and you live in an area with a lot of people you can probably find a guy who would be content with a hand job. We live in the middle of nowhere so our swingers club has a low population and tends to have the same people every time.

[panda1989]

I wouldn't be open to giving head at the moment but curious if it mattered if you used a condom if I did.

I'm a part-time model so I guess you could say I'm hot

Would you take a hand job to make you cum if that was all I offered?

[Obelisk]

Why doesn't your bf want to do oral?

[panda1989]

Why doesn't your bf want to do oral?

He says he never did it with anyone before me. I think it may be the taste or that I when I orgasm, I cum alot.

It is frustrating at times but I'm fine with it since he's a great man and takes care of me it every other way.

[panda1989]

Usually it's oral for oral but if you are hot and you live in an area with a lot of people you can probably find a guy who would be content with a hand job. We live in the middle of nowhere so our swingers club has a low population and tends to have the same people every time.

I'm in the Los Angeles area and we travel to Chicago quite frequently so there is a large population. We've never been to a swingers club before but we're hoping to check it out soon. Probably start off slow. Go and watch the first time, then maybe have sex while others watched if we were feeling it. We both also have a fantasy of guys jacking off to me while I service my boyfriend or while having sex.

What can we expect at a swingers club? Any tips or suggestions?

[kira]

Really depends on the night here. Our club has 2 walled off leather couches, an open area with couches and bar stools at tables, and then a "play room" with a piece of sex furniture and a sex machine. Sometimes you just find a bunch of people hanging around talking and drinking alcohol and sometimes there's a lot of action going on with a line for the play room. The regulars always make sure to greet every girl that walks in no matter how much effort goes in to getting across the room to them. I found that amusing to watch.

[a_dub]

I wouldn't be open to giving head at the moment but curious if it mattered if you used a condom if I did.

I'm a part-time model so I guess you could say I'm hot

Would you take a hand job to make you cum if that was all I offered?

Make it a HJ + BJ with a condom, and you've got yourself a deal!

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[CHANDLERS WISH]

Panda,

I would still think very carefully about this and make sure your soh is the non jealous type.

Seeing someone else go down on you and watching your reaction, when he personally can not do this for you, may stay in his mind and may disrupt your relationship, he may even get angry or jealous afterwards and feel that you've been touched by another man, regardless of whether or not you have sexual intercourse, give him a bj, hj, with or without a condom.

Do you get turned on by him touching you there with his fingers ? Why not make suggestions first to him in this regard and experiment, at least if he can get you going himself, by the art of his fingers on top there, wet and all He may not care as much.

I am honestly just not too sure as I've seen it backfire many a time here.