[Regalius]

Sex is great for her, we can do it more than 3 times a day. I know how to turn her on so much she'd force me inside of her, I squeeze, I bite, I kiss, I lick. But anyways, in the "turning-on process" I try to stimulate the clitoris and she's always all like "meh... move on to the next thing". I've read a lot of articles and tried different tactics and movements to stimulate that area but I it never works. Anyways, when we have sex I can last for hours but she still won't get an orgasm. She screams and moans and bites me during the intercourse, but no orgasm. I really want to give everything a man can give her so she won't even imagine getting such attention from another man, as I get very jelous Can I get some first-hand tips? She likes fingering very much and I vibrate my hands in a certain way but she never reaches orgasm... She's healthy, she doesn't smoke or drink.
Also if it has to do with my penis size, I am slightly bigger than the average in lenght and A LOT bigger in width. And also she was a virgin when we did it the first time.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

she still won't get an orgasm. She screams and moans and bites me during the intercourse, but no orgasms

Sounds to me that she is having many mini orgasms. Biting, screams, that sounds like orgasm. But also , OH WOW. So can I ask, who is concerned here? And, if you don't mind, why the size, width? I didn't realise that that was the most important aspect I thought it was 1) lust 2) love 3) chemistry 4) admiration 5) flair not in any particular order .

Virgin - and her reaction is one of pleasure she loves you...is happy. Age? How old are you two?

[Regalius]

I am 20, she is 18, a few years ago we said we'd wait so we will be grown-ups and do it with moral and mental stability ^^. Also size is always important, no matter what people say. A giant first-class Battleship has much bigger chances to destroy a fort than a Caravel, if you get the metaphor. We have all those 5 things you said, and also when I am around her, kissing her, it's like a waterfall between her legs, so I don't think arousal is the problem. And about those mini orgasms... the biting and screaming (more like moaning) is constant, no matter how much time we do it. From the moment I start to the moment I get tired . I am so angry that I can't get her to a big finish in which she shakes, squirts or something, I'd feel like I've done my job.
Also I was a virgin too a few weeks ago, so the only experience I have is the articles, books and movies I've watched about getting a girl to orgasm.

[PhrendlyPhil]

Ragalius: The first thing you need to do is chillax! Here are a few tips: 1) Take the pressure off you by letting her do the work. Ask her to pleasure herself in front of you (if she's not masturbated before this can be a huge turn on for both of you). Take lots of notes. Observe her anatomy and the way she moves her hand and fingers (does she move them up and down, side to side, round and round?). Watch her face and body as she changes her tempo and intensity. If she wants to try it with a vibrator or dildo, encourage her and watch that too. She will always be able to respond best to her own feedback. However, if you take good notes you may be able to replicate some of her moves. 2) Since she gave you a show, now you give her one. Let her watch how you pleasure yourself. She can watch you orgasm and then you can both chillax. 3) After a few days of no sex, you can now try to stimulate her manually or orally. Go slow. Let her guide you. Ask her for feedback. If you can't bring her to climax the first several times, don't sweat it. Ask her to put her hand in there as well.

[PhrendlyPhil]

One more thing. Most women do not orgasm from intercourse alone. If she needs help, ask her to put her fingers down there while you're having intercourse and perhaps she will climax as well. If it doesn't happen, don't sweat it. It needs to come at its own time.

[Regalius]

Ragalius: The first thing you need to do is chillax! Here are a few tips: 1) Take the pressure off you by letting her do the work. Ask her to pleasure herself in front of you (if she's not masturbated before this can be a huge turn on for both of you). Take lots of notes. Observe her anatomy and the way she moves her hand and fingers (does she move them up and down, side to side, round and round?). Watch her face and body as she changes her tempo and intensity. If she wants to try it with a vibrator or dildo, encourage her and watch that too. She will always be able to respond best to her own feedback. However, if you take good notes you may be able to replicate some of her moves. 2) Since she gave you a show, now you give her one. Let her watch how you pleasure yourself. She can watch you orgasm and then you can both chillax. 3) After a few days of no sex, you can now try to stimulate her manually or orally. Go slow. Let her guide you. Ask her for feedback. If you can't bring her to climax the first several times, don't sweat it. Ask her to put her hand in there as well.

Well she's tried to masturbate before even infront of me, but she tells me she feels no pleasure - nothing. Even when she fingers herself she doesn't get any pleasure from it. She told me that she only likes it when I do it. Also I was never able to find her clitoris. I've spent hours of searching and nothing, it feels like it's not there or just extremely small.

[PhrendlyPhil]

Well she's tried to masturbate before even infront of me, but she tells me she feels no pleasure - nothing. Even when she fingers herself she doesn't get any pleasure from it. She told me that she only likes it when I do it. Also I was never able to find her clitoris. I've spent hours of searching and nothing, it feels like it's not there or just extremely small.

Seems like she's not aroused. This sounds like it might be a hormonal deficiency or perhaps its psychological. She might need some testosterone/estrogen therapy or sex therapy. Encourage her to find treatment and offer to go along with her. Tell her its to increase the pleasure for both of you.

[wino33]

Sometimes it's very difficult for a girl/women to orgasm just from penetration. I'd try having her control a vibrator while the two of you are having sex.