[lera_29]

Been married for 9 years have txo kids, Since married I always had overpowering feeling that he is bysexyal. When walking i find him quick check out on guys and he has a strong desirable feeling about trying anus sex which I do not preferred/agree at all. He oped up a construction business a year ago, trying to make it. Never seen a guy who works sooo hard to make it out there. He works so hard and loves the kids. He is gentle and loving but financial reasons had bought as apart too, which doesn't bother me much we can overcome. So!! Here is where i truly need someone to help. Few weeks ago, he would go few hours in the morning to work- nice and dressed up he made sure he had some gums with him lolll and come back in just 2 or three hours. While he was there I was sick to my stomach and had this insane uncontrollable feeling that overpowered me of assurances that he is with another man. Was patient through out the week and on Sunday, finally confronted him. I said is this a jock I mean you go to work all dressed up you come back few hours and say that you are done - I mean whats going on? He got sooo ****ed of left in the morning and stayed e all day long. All day long this powerful feeling just got wore and worse i could hardly breath. When he came in the evening, I could tell his hair that he had a shower and his looked UN-scertened and scared of me lol. Got the strength to tell him thats it i am leaving. For the pas few week things that I had to go through wouldn't wish in on anyone. For the sake of two kids made a decision to stay to much to handle for me on my own. Even going through this whole stressful situation i did not get him to admit. Every time we have a conversation about him being different, he comes back by crusting and making me feel sooo bad by thinking of him that way.

I am soo intuitive kinda of a person - usually I am right about anything i think and feel.

Need help pleas...

[lera_29]

I must also mention prior to " he was too controlled over his phone, and whenever his boss called he would leave the room".

[rcoreyus]

It is possible to be bisexual but act on your attraction to other people than your partner. Same way that someone who is heterosexual may be attracted to other people but still be faithful to their partner.

Many straight men are interested in anal sex giving and even receiving (from a woman with a dildo). It is not a sign that someone is homosexual.

I don't quite follow what makes you think he was with another man. The shower might be suspicious, but maybe his work has a shower and he doesn't want to come home all sweaty.

[lera_29]

[QUOTE=rcoreyus;359147]It is possible to be bisexual but act on your attraction to other people than your partner. Same way that someone who is heterosexual may be attracted to other people but still be faithful to their partner.

Many straight men are interested in anal sex giving and even receiving (from a woman with a dildo). It is not a sign that someone is homosexual.

I don't quite follow what makes you think he was with another man. The shower might be suspicious, but maybe his work has a shower and he doesn't want to come home all sweaty.

Its a construction work they don't have showers they worke outside. concrete prepping, sidewalls, stair, garage pads.
Thats another suspicious - few week back someone called and asked him why he had left the doors open of a house. Afterwords I asked what did you have to do with that, he said he needed a plug. Few days ago we had another argument, were fine just having a conversation, he started describing inside of a beautiful house - I said what were you doing inside i don't understand you're work is outside. immediate action nooo i wasn't inside i was checking it out from the window.


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[Trisha23]

if you really think that he is like that.....straight to his face ask him once and for all...if he admit it or not he already knew that your doubtful of his sexuality.