FH has developed more control in the time we've been together--the first few months, I could make him climax just by kissing him as soon as he was inside me--but we still have to be careful at this moment. Does anyone else have the same situation?
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When my fiance first enters me it's always a really special moment for me both emotionally and physically (at least if we've done things right and I'm wet and excited--if he "jumps the gun," which fortunately is very rare, it can be uncomfortable). At the same time, it's also _extremely_ stimulating for him. So as he penetrates me, my impulse is to kiss him and hold him close and to squeeze my vaginal muscles, but I have to be very careful not to overdo this or he will come. (It's usually better when I'm on top since I have more control of the situation and can go slower, and he is more relaxed and less likely to climax right off the bat.)
FH has developed more control in the time we've been together--the first few months, I could make him climax just by kissing him as soon as he was inside me--but we still have to be careful at this moment. Does anyone else have the same situation? -
Not to rub it in your face but I don't experience this problem. My hubby can do the hard and fast quickie approach and we'll be finished in 2-5 minutes but he can also do the longer love session where he can last for 30-35 minutes upon penetration. One thing he can do which still boggles me is the ability to do the Fast & Furious Pounding for as long as 2-3 minutes non-stop and he is going balls deep so the clapping noise will be loud.
This is why he is the best as he is versatile. You must've be a very sexy and attractive to get him to finish inside you that quickly. Sometimes it takes practice and trying new methods to solve this problem.It's all fun and games until you mess with a Portuguese girl.
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