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  • shoshannah
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    • Nov 2010
    • 228

    Penetration

    When my fiance first enters me it's always a really special moment for me both emotionally and physically (at least if we've done things right and I'm wet and excited--if he "jumps the gun," which fortunately is very rare, it can be uncomfortable). At the same time, it's also _extremely_ stimulating for him. So as he penetrates me, my impulse is to kiss him and hold him close and to squeeze my vaginal muscles, but I have to be very careful not to overdo this or he will come. (It's usually better when I'm on top since I have more control of the situation and can go slower, and he is more relaxed and less likely to climax right off the bat.)

    FH has developed more control in the time we've been together--the first few months, I could make him climax just by kissing him as soon as he was inside me--but we still have to be careful at this moment. Does anyone else have the same situation?
  • jilljames8184
    Member
    • Jun 2014
    • 85

    Yeah. My hubby gets so excited sometimes he lasts only 30 seconds upon penetration. I have found that if he really excited during foreplay he goes too quickly. If I am in the mood for a longer time, I will limit the foreplay.

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    • Something_Awesome
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      • Apr 2014
      • 1219

      I honestly did not have this issue even when doing it for my first time. Might have been due to masturbation LMAO.
      "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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      • Elena_EvilEye
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        • Jun 2014
        • 372

        Not to rub it in your face but I don't experience this problem. My hubby can do the hard and fast quickie approach and we'll be finished in 2-5 minutes but he can also do the longer love session where he can last for 30-35 minutes upon penetration. One thing he can do which still boggles me is the ability to do the Fast & Furious Pounding for as long as 2-3 minutes non-stop and he is going balls deep so the clapping noise will be loud.

        This is why he is the best as he is versatile. You must've be a very sexy and attractive to get him to finish inside you that quickly. Sometimes it takes practice and trying new methods to solve this problem.
        It's all fun and games until you mess with a Portuguese girl.

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        • jen1447
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          • Oct 2013
          • 2380

          Originally posted by Elena
          One thing he can do which still boggles me is the ability to do the Fast & Furious Pounding for as long as 2-3 minutes non-stop and he is going balls deep so the clapping noise will be loud.
          I love that sound.

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          • Baboy
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            • Aug 2012
            • 774

            So unequivocally porn!
            I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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            • Elena_EvilEye
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              • Jun 2014
              • 372

              Originally posted by jen1447
              I love that sound.
              I love that sound too. My husband also loves the sound of me moaning and being vocal when he does that.
              It's all fun and games until you mess with a Portuguese girl.

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              • Motorguy
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                • Mar 2014
                • 3921

                Originally posted by Elena_EvilEye
                I love that sound too. My husband also loves the sound of me moaning and being vocal when he does that.
                I have to admit Elena, my wife loves that sound as well can be intoxicating along with the loud moaning and groaning too some times screaming lol.
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                • Something_Awesome
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                  • Apr 2014
                  • 1219

                  GF also loves that sound... more than I do that's for sure.
                  "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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                  • jen1447
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                    • Oct 2013
                    • 2380

                    The moaning/screaming (I assume she does that) or the whap-whap-whap? Or are you screaming when she hits your jewels?

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