I know the feeling. At the start of my relationship of 5 years, he would do everything. Now I'm lucky if he kisses me when we have sex... I love giving him oral, but on some days, I don't want to but I do anyway in the hope that he will reciprocate... And nothing, it's been months now, and it's really hard for me to orgasm from just sex... His excuses included 'I feel like I can taste my own penis', 'I would if you waxed instead of shaved' and my personal favorite 'I don't watch as much porn anymore, so I feel no enthusiasm towards it'. I know how you feel, and I think it's unfair if your boyfriend expects you to give him oral, and not to return. If you're like me and it's hard to orgasm from just sex, it's unfair and can leave you really frustrated! I hope everything works out for you!
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