I know the feeling. At the start of my relationship of 5 years, he would do everything. Now I'm lucky if he kisses me when we have sex... I love giving him oral, but on some days, I don't want to but I do anyway in the hope that he will reciprocate... And nothing, it's been months now, and it's really hard for me to orgasm from just sex... His excuses included 'I feel like I can taste my own penis', 'I would if you waxed instead of shaved' and my personal favorite 'I don't watch as much porn anymore, so I feel no enthusiasm towards it'. I know how you feel, and I think it's unfair if your boyfriend expects you to give him oral, and not to return. If you're like me and it's hard to orgasm from just sex, it's unfair and can leave you really frustrated! I hope everything works out for you!
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Acesup, we’ve talked about this quite a bit in your other threads, and one thing I’ve never questioned is how much you want your wife to enjoy sex...
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Reply to Men and woman - rejecting someone?
I'll be honest as a guy I have a real pet peeve or sore spot that used to make me really angry about being friend zoned. Still does except I'm married...
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Encourage? Hell I wish my wife would encourage me to buy her a vibrator, or anything else to try to make sex more enjoyable for her. I wish my wife would...
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Reply to Men and woman - rejecting someone?
Ooo this is a good one!
So many possibilities -- for me, I have to balance being what I call "conscientiously honest" with also... -
Out of curiosity, what is the most respectful way you've ever been rejected or "friendzoned." I always feel terrible and like to do it in the...
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Out of curiosity, what is the most respectful way you've ever been rejected or "friendzoned." I always feel terrible and like to do it in the...
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How are we all handling birth control now these days? I got the Nexaplanon 5 years ago and its time for a renewal. When I got it there was a huge buzz...
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Hello, I’m 40, a cis woman, and I’ve been married for 10 years. We were having sex and I was nearly to climax when it sort of just dissipated. This...
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