[JonDoe]

If you were traveling without your spouse or partner, would you have Skype / FaceTime sex from your hotel room if your partner suggested it?

[HisGirl]

I don't see why not. Maybe I'm missing something? I mean I've had phone sex with my husband back in the day when there wasn't Skype or Internet. If its your partner and you trust them, then I don't see a reason not to do it if it would make them happy. Having said that, I've never done it so I don't know what I'd say or do. We don't talk a lot during sex to begin with so I might have to take lessons or something first lol. But I'd try it anyway, cause I'm a trooper!

[Stillness]

I'm in the "probably not" crowd. My wife and I have never done mutual masturbation or phone sex, so I don't see it. But we've also never been separated for more than a few days, so I won't say it's impossible.

[kira]

We don't really talk during sex. I'd have no idea what to say or do.

[JonDoe]

Interesting that responses thus far have focused on the talking and not knowing what to say. I thought the primary concern for most people would be related to the video getting on the internet. I would find it super-sexy if my wife was willing, and she wouldn't have to SAY much!

[JonDoe]

I'd try it anyway, cause I'm a trooper!

From the few posts that I've read, I think you are a definitely a SUPER TROOPER. I give you 10 gold stars!!!

[orchiddreams]

I've generally felt uncomfortable about documenting my sexual activities, the conspiracy theorist in me thinks it's probably being recorded somewhere...but so are millions of others- why would mine be special?!? :P So I have finally have come around to it- seriously life is too short. If it's a trust issue- then I guess you shouldn't be having sex- I think there is a deep understanding with sexual partners that what's shared between the two of you stays there and doesn't leave the bedroom, so to speak.

And no talking during sex? What?! I understand personal preferences but so much is being missed out on....there's nothing better than sex- you should nurture it, develop it, have fun with it!

[kira]

I did a little sex talk on aim with my first boyfriend because he lived 900 miles away. Guess what... He had the save conversations turned on (don't know if that feature is still there as I use trillian now) and his mom found them while using his computer. Oooo was she ****ed. He was several years younger than me and just under 18 so technically in his state it was statutory but not in my state. We'd also laughed about the things we'd done while camping in my state that his mom never caught or woke up to. I put my save location for conversations in to a random folder inside a random program that no one would look at after that so I wouldn't get caught too.