[Beccalouise]

Well, that's what I think. Me and my fiancé had sex yesterday when I was still wearing my dress and he was still wearing his shirt, and he didn't last long at all. He said something about having sex when I have my dress on more often, so I assumed he liked it. (I was on top so he couldn't see what was going on down there) I liked it a lot more too, but I just wondered, how come it feels more kinky and sort of... Arousing when you're having sex when clothed? We've done it once before when he was on top but I don't remember it being as good, but he didn't last long then either, so maybe that's why we were clothed (if we didn't have much time or something).

I don't have a problem with this, we're pretty much up for anything that's considered a bit more kinky but not too kinky, I guess you could say more different... We've had sex in the living room on the sofa and the floor, and we've had shower sex (sort of). Never public sex, I guess the only way I'd have public sex is if we were in a car, or a hot tub or a pool when no one's around.

What other ways/places have you had sex that you've found a bit more kinky and arousing?

[kira]

I find clothes on annoying and unarrousing. My husband would do it just out of convenience but I always pull his clothes off. There's no way I'd ever have sex with a dress on. I don't really find having sex in other place all that interesting either. I'd rather have a nice comfy bed with plenty of room to move around. Height difference makes shower sex pretty much impossible.

[Element]

We've done a cycle around the house before. Living room, kitchen, bathroom, then ended in the bedroom. I like the living room because it was kind of like both of us got up from where we were, started kissing, and then it all just erupted from there.

If your man gets aroused by not being able to see "what's going on" I would suggest rope to restrain him from being able to touch you as you touch yourself; since you like being on top this could work greatly. Also try a blind fold on him. It could only work for foreplay, or the whole way through. Only one way to know

[muffin70]

I think it can be kind of kinky and arousing having sex fully clothed
My wife and I have done it a few times where we have been wearing some clothing

One time she had just come home from work and I asked if we could have sex so she just bent over in front of me in the bedroom to tease me and I just lifted up her skirt, pulled her panties down and took her from behind.. I was so turned on that I lasted less than 30 seconds!

[jns]

Clothing can be arousing because of what is seen and what is not seen. It can be arousing because of what it touches. It can be arousing because of the textures of the fabrics. It can be arousing because it is something different, creating variety. It can be arousing when incorporated in fantasies. It may be necessary for those who like to have sex in public places, such as the beach or in a park.

[shoshannah]

Maybe the kinkiness is because clothed sex is faster/more impromptu, like you need to get it over with fast before you get caught? More impersonal?

I generally don't like it because the clothes either get in the way or get messed up, or both.

[kira]

I like to feel and smell bare skin not rough fabric and not seeing things is not a turn on for me.

[HisGirl]

Sex with clothes on reminds me of the days when we were dating and we had to mess around in the backseat of the car and getting completely undressed was not a good idea so we'd only take off what was absolutely necessary. I recall at least one time getting caught by the police! In that situation you want to be mostly dressed. Anyway, it's hot because it usually happens when you're rushed and too into it to bother getting completely undressed or when you're doing it somewhere where you shouldn't be, lol.

[februarysky]

I like some clothing (usually just a shirt, unbuttoned) because of what it implies: I want you so bad that I can’t be bothered to take off all of my clothes. Also, my boyfriend is a businessman, and for me, seeing his neatly pressed shirt unbuttoned over his sweating body, his hair all in disarray, is a huge turn on for me. It tells me that I am wrecking his composure and tearing down his clean-cut image.

[Guest]

I find clothes on annoying and unarrousing. My husband would do it just out of convenience but I always pull his clothes off. There's no way I'd ever have sex with a dress on. I don't really find having sex in other place all that interesting either. I'd rather have a nice comfy bed with plenty of room to move around. Height difference makes shower sex pretty much impossible.

I have. In public. Sneak into an unoccupied room of a business or hotel, bend over a table, have your husband lift your dress or skirt over your back, and you will get turned on. I've had chicks ride me while I was sitting in my car's driver seat, parked of course.