[shoshannah]

My fiance and I have been having sex for years and he still has trouble holding back when I climax during intercourse (which I normally do). He says it just drives him wild. Truth to tell always find that a little inconvenient because sometimes I would like to have a second orgasm but his reactions make it difficult.

Are all guys like this? If so, what is it about a woman's orgasm that's so exciting to guys?

[HerNewTool]

Being a guy i can also understand where he is coming from. When my girl is building up, and during orgasm really turns me on. It's more of what he finds sexually stimulating. When my girl builds up to the orgasm she has to move her hips a certain way, which i can describe as her tightening her pelvic muscles and her pelvis area moving forward....that really hits the spot for me, and listening to her breathing, and quiet moans does so much to help that....I have a feeling he's a giver, he is turned on by turning you on, and he really enjoys making you happy. so by him getting you off and making you feel great it makes him feel amazing....atleast that's how it is in my situation, hopes this is some insight.

[chaya]

For my first year of marriage, I had an orgasm every time we had sex, sometimes more than one. Now that I can never orgasm he misses it as much as I do and maybe more. He tries to get me there but it never happens. I wouldn't blame him if he looked elsewhere for sex.

[jns]

A lot of women love it when their man orgasms, so men loving women orgasming is the same thing with the roles reversed.

When a woman orgasms, her muscles contract and this can be seen and felt during intercourse. Of course if she orgasms during giving her oral it can also be seen and felt. Her breathing becomes more ragged as she goes through the throes of ecstasy. She drifts away in all of the sensations of the moment. This is very similar to what a guy goes through. He can also be proud of being able to bring her to orgasm. And he wants to share the feelings he felt with her by having her experience the same thing. So, what is there not to like?

However, there are quite a few guys who are selfish and don't want to give anything to their partner. Further, there are others who are lazy and don't want to spend the time. Then there are those who are ignorant and don't want to learn. Etc., etc., etc.

[Guest]

I love women to have orgasms because they love them. If they love them, I love them.

[Monte]

I love the feeling of her squeezing me when she is having one. I also put her needs 1st and make sure she has one most every time we have sex. Sometimes I just can't get her there, but she will play with her clit to make it happen when she is in the mood for that type of orgasm. G sot orgasms are a mind bending experience for her as well as me watching and helping her have one.

[jen1447]

what is it about a woman's orgasm that's so exciting to guys?

They have a front row seat to the most amazing thing in the world. What wouldn't be exciting about it? Exciting is putting it mildly.