[Guest]

faeluna,

If your boyfriend says that he loves to go down on women yet doesn't, he's lying. Always go with what a person does as opposed to what s/he says.

I'd be ****ed at him for blaming you. Women have an enticing fragrance that drives men wild, which is why every man I know loves to to go down on women. In my sexually intense relationship with my last girlfriend, I'd go down on her for long periods of time and she'd cum at least five times. Your fragrance should drive him up a wall.

I do tip my hat to you for sexually related communication with him. I think that it's crucial for men & women to have open and honest conversations about sex and without judgment. If a woman were to tell me she doesn't like a particular sex act, I do not need to know why she doesn't like it, only that she doesn't want me to do it. But I do think he's lying to you. If he loves to go down on women, he'd have his head buried between your legs every chance he has.

I wish you the absolute best.

[kira]

He would never date anyone that smoked and he never said anything about her not taking showers. I have no idea what she ate but having tested diet on semen since I hate the taste of it and doing tons of research I really seriously doubt that 99% of diets out there make a difference in taste. Maybe 2 or 3 foods can make a bad taste but that's all I've found. Everyone just has a unique taste and smell that they cannot change and to some people it is appealing and to others it is unappealing. They have tested this thoroughly before. They found those more closely related also tended to dislike each others smell more than those distantly related. This may have evolved to help keep genes in the species diverse.

[Guest]

kira,

I really do not believe it has anything to do with faeluna. I think her b/f doesn't like going down on women (or he doesn't know how) & he's trying to blame her, which reveals him to lack character.

Women have told me that they love oral sex, but it annoys them when men don't know what they're doing. If a man knows what he's doing, a woman will want it all the time.

[kira]

That's just a big assumption and it's still immature to punish someone for not doing something they dislike. Does he arouse you in other ways and make sure you enjoy sex despite the oral?

[Guest]

kira,

He is probably insecure, but even if he is he should have never blamed her. She did absolutely nothing wrong. If she loves oral sex, he ought to learn how to do it right and then do it often.