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  • silky3211
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 5

    Do you tease him over his endowment?

    I had a question: have you ever teased or dealt with a man who was a little insecure about the size of his erect manhood? this is what I am dealing with! I have a boyfriend who I been with for 8 months and we started getting sexually involved 4 months back. I noticed he is very insecure shy about his 'lack of inches' as he calls it. I really think he is fine and I like his penis. He is around 5 and 3 quarters erect (I measured him during foreplay) and I have taunted him about not being officially average by not making it to the 6 inch mark of the ruler. This seems to make him shy but yet turns him on strangely which I like! has anyone here dealt with a man who likes this type of thing?

    I also trying to find other ways to taunt him about his lack of measurement by using types of measurement objects etc but need idea's. How would you taunt and tease him?

    Does any ladies here have any idea's here please and have you had experience with a man insecure in this way? kind of a weird and unusual topic I know but I really looking for insight. Thx.
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Taunting him is a good way to scar him for life. The fact is, that by many sites, he is a bit longer than average. Many guys are either insecure about their length or can be made insecure about their length due to what they see in porn. Teasing him this way is no different than being meanly teased about any other physical aspect such as thinness, weight, height, color of skin, shape of nose, color of eyes, lack of strength, etc. It should not be done.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • silky3211
      Junior Member
      • Oct 2013
      • 5

      Originally posted by jns
      Taunting him is a good way to scar him for life. The fact is, that by many sites, he is a bit longer than average. Many guys are either insecure about their length or can be made insecure about their length due to what they see in porn. Teasing him this way is no different than being meanly teased about any other physical aspect such as thinness, weight, height, color of skin, shape of nose, color of eyes, lack of strength, etc. It should not be done.
      No I said he likes it he told me he does. I stated this. I not that mean where I would do it for sadistic fun if he didn't.

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      • rcoreyus
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2007
        • 4369

        Some men like being taunted as part of a domination sort of thing. To each their own, but of course be careful not to taunt someone who doesn't enjoy it.

        If he does (really) enjoy this, there is a good chance he will like other sorts of domination.

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        • DreamP346
          • Oct 2011
          • 2053

          Doesn't necessarily have to do with domination. Sounds more like he is into humiliation. Have you tried humiliating him about other stuff? Doesn't necessarily have to be an area he is insecure about. You can just make things up. However, these are areas that can easily get out of hand so it's always better to talk it through first. Make sure he wants to go ahead with the humiliation. You can use derogatory nick names like Shorty.
          Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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          • Obelisk
            Veteran Member
            • Jul 2013
            • 441

            Well, I'll give you my take.

            I started at 5.5" erect and knowing that I'm slightly below average has ruined me completely.

            I've resorted to start doing Penile Enhancement exercises and have gained a bit (currently at 5.8") and I won't even bother talking to women anymore until I am at least 7"

            So yes it can destroy us. It's destroyed me.
            Pigeonholer extraordinaire!

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            • atskitty2
              Assistant Admin
              • Aug 2013
              • 4467

              To each their own. I find it odd and can't help but wonder what you're interpretation of "turned on" is. What comes to my mind is rather, a man who takes an attitude of "ill show you!" Which probably turns you on.
              I think if it works for you both, then it works, no harm done. I would just be cautious how far it goes.

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              • silky3211
                Junior Member
                • Oct 2013
                • 5

                Originally posted by Obelisk
                Well, I'll give you my take.

                I started at 5.5" erect and knowing that I'm slightly below average has ruined me completely.

                I've resorted to start doing Penile Enhancement exercises and have gained a bit (currently at 5.8") and I won't even bother talking to women anymore until I am at least 7"

                So yes it can destroy us. It's destroyed me.
                Your average. Not too many men are 7. Most are around 6. As long as your not dealing with some nasty **** who just wants a big **** then whats the worry?

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                • silky3211
                  Junior Member
                  • Oct 2013
                  • 5

                  Meant to add this before: does penis enhancement technique really work?

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                  • Obelisk
                    Veteran Member
                    • Jul 2013
                    • 441

                    Originally posted by silky3211
                    Your average. Not too many men are 7. Most are around 6. As long as your not dealing with some nasty ******** who just wants a big ******** then whats the worry?
                    If you feel like reading for a while, you can go here:



                    To answer your question, penis enhancement seems to be working for me, but to do it safely takes a long time and results are very slow. Still, if I can gain 1"-2" in a year or two I'll take it.
                    Pigeonholer extraordinaire!

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