[sexy brenda]

I am a married woman of the age of 50 and so happy now that I can join in with this forum and tell you my story (this is my first post so I am a little scared how it will go). During the past few years in our marriage our sex life was going nowhere and I found out be accident that my next door neighbour had exchanged partners previously as two women together often do the subject turned to our sex lives. It appears they had a couple who they did it with (no other couples were involved) but they had since left the area. Talking then got around to asking if I would be interested in giving it a go. Well I was highly aroused by then and to cut a long story short a date and time was arranged at their house. My husband at first was unsure but I fancied it as I wanted to be sexually active regularly again. I can only say it was the best decision that I made. The first night that we were together (both partners did it in separate bedrooms and no one saw what the other got up to} it was fantastic he caressed my body all over gently giving me plenty of foreplay and finally going down on me and giving me oral sex. That sent me into a spin as I had never experienced oral sex before. Then we did the full deed and it was wonderful. After that we agreed to meet once a month for exchange and we have been together for six months now. The thing that you must realize is that it’s just sex, good sex but just sex. At my age this has given me new vigor and at the age of 50 I feel that I am not useless any more.

[jen1447]

That's fantastic, Brenda. Sexual awakenings are always great, no matter when or how they occur.

[hot amy]

Did you just go and do it on your friends say so was not the men involved ? how did they come to be asked if they wanted to join in. You say your husband did not have sex with you regularly how did he feel about going with your female friend

[sexy brenda]

We did not just jump up and do it as you ask I had been having girly afternoons with my friend and as you can imagine when two females get together the subject seems often to turn to sex. I found out through time that she and her husband exchanged partners and they had moved away. She had tried over many months to get me interested in a relationship with them as they wanted a new couple to do it with, I should imagine she was telling her husband that she was try to get me into the partnership with them, which I always drew away from. When I was finally agreeable the question was how to get my husband involved that was to crucial task as by now I was so sexes up I was eager to start. The idea was to get him to fancy her. What with over the garden fence talk about any other subject and her wearing low cut tops I finally got him to look at her and it all evolved from there.

[hot amy]

That’s fine Brenda I have done many things with men and women but my husband and I also have a regular partnership like you. I think it is great for you to start this sex now at your age, I am glad that you enjoyed your first oral sex encounter so late in your marriage.I have a loving relationship with my husband and we love having sex together regular.. We also have a regular couple who we meet up with a few times month to share partners this is most gratifying. In this partnership (I hate to call it wife swapping) we also like to masturbate together and give each other oral sex, something that I believe should be reserved for lovers only, and finally ending with the full intercourse act. We do this in the in separate bedrooms, as you do. My lover Ken likes me to be in stockings and suspenders for this meeting, I love to oblige. What my husband gets up to? I imagine he does the same things yours. This relationship has been going on for over 5 years. I hope your relationship with your extra partners develops into a lasting satisfying time .Just a final thought as you liked the oral experience so much for the first time please try to give him sex orally you will also find it nice. And as it develops would you fancy giving your female friend oral all these acts in a partner exchange are most gratifying.

[jen1447]

Brenda, what was it that made you change your mind after your initial reluctance? It almost sounds like these desires were always there, just buried inside. Or did your neighbor somehow 'sell' you on it over time? It sounds like you were dying for it by the time it finally happened ...just wondering what the real impetus was.

[sexy brenda]

Hi Jen I expect you think I may be mad at my age wanting sex again. But throughout my life I enjoyed sex with my husband regularly about nearly every day as we got older we did seem to do it much. and by the time I moved to be next door to my friend Pat and Ken. I probably was only having sex about three times a year due to my husband’s work and coming home tied. It was with having friendly chats with Pat about all sorts of subjects we began talking about sex. When I told her my problem she was caring and wanted to help me. She asked me if I ever wished to be still having sex and I said that I was yearning for it. I told her that I had begun to masturbate when I was in the house when my husband was at work. So as you say Jen it was that my desires were always there and I was as you say ‘dying for it’ Pat one day asked me if I masturbated and saying that I did on occasions asked if I would like to masturbate there and then in her house, at first I was in shock at such a suggestion but I began to get wet below. She suggested that I did it through my pants. I would like to say that I had a sheltered life and had never seen another man or woman’s private parts in my life. I said I was bashful but she put me at my ease by doing it to her eventually our pants came down and we both masturbated ourselves, we did not touch each other. When we had done she asked me if I had enjoyed it and I said it was better than doing it on my own. She told me I still had a great cum off and she said I should be sexually active again, providing if that is what I wanted. I went home that day stretched out on my bed and masturbated myself again like mad. I then decided that I would join in with the sex nights with them. Jen you don’t think that I have gone mad at my age do you?

[jen1447]

Gone mad? Hardly.

You say you're 50 Brenda, not 150 - that's a perfectly 'normal' age to desire and pursue a healthy and vigorous sex life.

[hot amy]

A nice post Brenda we have several things in common about our sex with different partners, our experience may differ (I am age 39 and I have been swapping for over 5 years) but you finely got to be where I am at the moment. I must admit it would be good to go just next door for the parties what a convenience I have to travel 7 miles, still it is worth it. What a wonderful time you had getting started, your friend Pat must think the world of you to help you into it. Do not ever feel guilty of masturbating with your friend to get in mood as you say. And if that had happened to me at the age of 50 I think that I would want to masturbate straight away afterwards I would be so turned on if it was my first time. Now that you have started I don’t want you ever to go into thinking that you are past it age 50 you are not. I hope that I will still be as adventurous as you when I am your age And whatever you do not feel guilty in telling us all on this forum, that is what the forum is for, you will always get help here. So be like the rest of us keep us up to date about your sex life concerning the parties.. And now a joke --- tell us on your profile where you live. by lovers name is also Kenny (Ken) So I hope your ken is not my ken, Just teasing you don’t live in Norfolk do you? just kidding.

[sexy brenda]

Thanks jen for your support. After reading your profile I wonder why you have time for an amateur like me, you have certainly given me the reason to go on.
And hot amy thank you for your support too I am glad I came on this chat forum you are right I will never feel guilty or embarrassed again about masturbating. I will stay on this site and I will let you know how my sexy life continues Oh and by the way in answer to your joke No my lover does not live in Norfolk it would be a long way to visit him next door From Nottingham Ha Ha