[Anne247]

Hi everyone! I'm new here and have a question.
First a little background information. So I've been in a relationship (my first) for almost three months. He's 24 and I'm 19. He is very sweet, respectful and gives me a lot of compliments. We actually are the first for each other in almost everything. (I have kissed someone before, but everything else is the first for the both of us). We have been sexually active for about two months. (Some people might say that's a little fast, but I don't feel uncomfortable by it and he respects me if I say no to something). We haven't actually had sex yet, but we've done everything else. I can satisfy him with HJ and BJ and he can satisfy me too. But yesterday evening he said that I'm not really that creative. He wasn't complaining or something, but he just said it as a hint. He likes what I do, but would like some more creativity. As we haven't actually had sex yet, that obviously will be new and exciting for us. So here comes my question. Does anyone have any tips for me as to be more creative without actually having to have sex? Because I'm not yet ready for that (he knows that and respects it). Maybe something that I can do, or maybe even wear.
Thank you for reading this! (I'm actually Dutch, so if I made any grammatical mistakes, sorry!)

[jen1447]

Funny - as a 24 year old virgin he should be like "Oh my GOD!" the moment you even look at him.

As to your question, what makes you tick? Creativity is only creative if it's done by you. If you seem like you are getting into something sexually (because you are), he'll most likely clue into that and think it's awesome. If you're just performing some function based on a description like you're at work, that won't be as good, no matter what it is. This is assuming he's into you like you describe.

[rcoreyus]

Has he given you any hints? There is such a wide range of things people would like that its almost impossible to tell for someone else. Dressing up? Tie him up and give him a really S_L_O_W HJ or BJ? Role playing - pretending to be different people / characters in a story? He's got to give you a hint or there is no way you can know what he is thinking of.

[LilahX]

There's lots of fun to be had without 'doing the deed'. Blindfolding one of you or tying up during a oral can heighten the excitement. A different location, a surprise quickie, sending a sexy text telling him what you're going to do to him later in the day, using ice cubes in your mouth (or his), have him lap champagne off your - your only limit is your imagination - enjoy.