[Pseudonymous]

Okay... SO i've probably made some kind of a huge mistake, but I think I've just become friends with benefits with my neighbor...We've had sex twice... I don't really know... but anyway, he's the only guy I've ever done anything with. The first time was awkward, and I bled a little... which I heard was normal. The second time was amazing. However, when we got done, and looked down, it looked like he murdered me there was so much blood... Is this normal? to bleed more the second time than the first time? Help me. I'm new!

[atskitty2]

What is your age?
Are you certain you weren't starting your period?

[Pseudonymous]

I'm 20, and no. I wasn't starting my period.

[atskitty2]

I don't think it's outside the bounds of normalcy, but it's probably less common. I bled very little my first time, and a little more the 2nd & 3rd, as I recall, but not as much as you describe. If it continues, see your gyno.

[TMariee]

How long was the gap between the first and second time? I do know the hymen can reform, im nto sure what the time limit on that is, but it can do. When i broke up with my first boyfriend there was a space of about a year before I had another sexual partner and I bled then like i was a virgin again lol. It also could just have been him being to rough. Since you were a virgin your vagina is still stretching out and is delicate so you might get a small cut inside (You can tell the difference between this blood and menstural blood, as menstural blood is darker, and blood from the veins is light/bright)

In time it (your vagina) will learn to deal with intercourse more but try to take stuff abit slower/gentler and gradually she'll be able to handle rougher sex without the blood also remember lubrication and foreplay are essential since your vagina will naturally open up more when you get more horny/turned on

Hope this helps

[m4nc3r]

If you have sex again, use plenty of lubricant and take it very slowly, if you still get bleeding occuring then consider seeking medical attention just to rule anything out.

Bare in mind, the average, non-virgin woman, her vagina only expands to about 4-5 inches when she is fully aroused, 3 inches if its before anything happens. If you're partner has a larger penis and just going in, it is probably going to make some tears.