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  • olivia123
    Member
    • Jan 2012
    • 17

    I'm too wet during sex..why

    Recently, I'm getting too wet during sex. Is it normal ? I'm asking cuz having hard time to get orgasm when I'm that wet ? Can I or him do something about it ?
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Are you having trouble getting to orgasm or is he or are you both? It is OK to use a towel to absorb some of the wetness. If he was getting you to orgasm by fingering or orally, the wetness shouldn't be a problem.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • olivia123
      Member
      • Jan 2012
      • 17

      Originally posted by jns
      Are you having trouble getting to orgasm or is he or are you both? It is OK to use a towel to absorb some of the wetness. If he was getting you to orgasm by fingering or orally, the wetness shouldn't be a problem.
      I didn't get my answer.
      I really hope some female answer me on that one by their experience and knowledge. I'm concerned about being so much wet just recently. if it just normal. Why we both feel it is bit extra wet than previous intercourse. Thanks !

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        Sometimes guys complain about their SO being too wet and losing the sensation of tightness and friction. I supposed it was your SO who was having trouble getting to orgasm, but I wasn't sure. Of course, with giving oral to a woman, wetness is often a wonderful thing. I hope you get your answer soon.
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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        • Justice
          Veteran Member
          • Aug 2013
          • 204

          Olivia - when you say you are getting TOO wet... are you "ejaculating" (like gushing or squirting) - where it is thinner/more watery and less lubricating?

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          • olivia123
            Member
            • Jan 2012
            • 17

            Originally posted by Justice
            Olivia - when you say you are getting TOO wet... are you "ejaculating" (like gushing or squirting) - where it is thinner/more watery and less lubricating?
            No I rather having trouble getting orgasm because of wetness. It is more like lubricating wetness. My BF thinks when women enjoy at their extreme they tend to get wet at this level. Is that could be right ?

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