[Alma]

If my husband could live down there he would. I enjoy it, but I want it every once in a blue moon (couple times a month). I always tell him if I were a guy (or a lesbian) I couldn't do it. It's no different than if he were asking you to do anal and you didn't want to. He would just have to respect that. Don't take it personal, he probably just doesn't enjoy doing it. I know you expect reciprocity because you give him oral, but you enjoy doing it. Sex is something you both should enjoy.

[C]

If my husband could live down there he would. I enjoy it, but I want it every once in a blue moon (couple times a month). I always tell him if I were a guy (or a lesbian) I couldn't do it. It's no different than if he were asking you to do anal and you didn't want to. He would just have to respect that. Don't take it personal, he probably just doesn't enjoy doing it. I know you expect reciprocity because you give him oral, but you enjoy doing it. Sex is something you both should enjoy.

I agree with you. No two of us is wired alike. I love oral sex performed on me and love doing him. I love bringing a man alive and take pride in the fact that at his age I can help him perform as he does. I am proving that pills are not necessary that all it takes is a women that loves a man and I adore him.

For a woman that loves oral sex as much as I do, her sexual behavior with that hot place between her legs, can take her to a place in heaven. This part of our body can be the most teasing and erotic place that can drive a man wild. But like you said, it has to be wanted by the woman and desired by the man. My husband and I are a matching set......

I replied to the above post in error. If they can delete it I would appreciate it but I can't. Time to get away from here for a few days....

[DrJ]

Well, she orgasms every time we have sex from vaginal intercourse, but really doesn't like direct clitoral stimulation. Kind of the opposite from other women I've been with. Different strokes......

[LadyLane]

Hey DrJ - Every once in a great while that happens to me, could be my hormones or something, but I get really sensitive. Will she let you go everywhere else but on the clit? Maybe my husband is some idiot savant, but he can get me off directly on my clit. The spot right above the clit is very sensitive and gives the same feeling.

I'm just offering this in case you really, really want to get on down with that lucious sweetness....

[CHANDLERS WISH]

What If?

I think some guys, lets face it ladies, most are immature for a long time and in a sexual way, they don't do what we do, read up more, try to understand pleasuring a woman. They think that all boils down to the size, and how they use it. So, it is possible that some think as we use that equipment to urinate from, even though its no where near that part of our ladyhood, that it's dirty to them, there may still be left over urine. True, i know in my youth as this was said to me, and my mother didn't explain where that came out and where the other came out from, i had to work it out for myself. So doesn't it make sense that some men (boys) think the same? Just a thought, perhaps you should discuss this further and explain. As for the gentleman who advised that perhaps it smells.... Please.... Women, won't feel comfortable about a man going there, unless she's clean, so you should think first. My thoughts.

[Fallen1]

So, it is possible that some think as we use that equipment to urinate from, even though its no where near that part of our ladyhood, that it's dirty to them, there may still be left over urine.

My opinion on that ....

I understand what you are saying but I don't think that is probably the case in most instances. What I mean is guys love for us to go down on them and they know they urinate from the same equipment. Why would they expect us to do something they considered dirty. I would like to think most men aren't that selfish/double standardish.

[C]

I think when a man is horny and in heat that he does not think nor care if a woman is clean or dirty...He has one thing on his mind.. Eating her out...God Bless him for that.....I know, I have licked that sexual smell off of him many times....Licking a man's C off after he has taken it out of you is one of the most erotic acts of love there is....

Years ago I found it terribly shocking and sensual after he had eaten me and then came back up and kissed me....That was hot....The same goes for me...In heat, baby I want you and that is just the way it is...

[rexydon]

I would suggest to try and find out why he doesnt want to and then compremise. I was in a relationship where she loved reciving oral and didnt want to give it. I asked why and shesaid she was scardabout me cumming in her mouth so i compermised I promised i would say something if i ever got close while she was doing oral so that she could stop and not have to worrie about it.

[rexydon]

My opinion on that ....

I understand what you are saying but I don't think that is probably the case in most instances. What I mean is guys love for us to go down on them and they know they urinate from the same equipment. Why would they expect us to do something they considered dirty. I would like to think most men aren't that selfish/double standardish.

As a guy i honestly haven't ever thought about where **** comes from when doing ore reciveing oral. I'm not sure if most guys do but i really dont care how close the urinary track is cause when im doing oral the only thing on my mind is to please and make my lover cum so i can lick up more of her juices

[Fallen1]

As a guy i honestly haven't ever thought about where **** comes from when doing ore reciveing oral. I'm not sure if most guys do but i really dont care how close the urinary track is cause when im doing oral the only thing on my mind is to please and make my lover cum so i can lick up more of her juices

I'm real bad about thinking of something I should have added after the fact and what you said is real close to what I wanted to add to my post, which is - I think that "in the heat of the moment" that (where tinkle comes from) is one of the last things that is on the mind of parties involved.