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  • veer
    Junior Member
    • Jan 2014
    • 6

    I need Some Tips About First Time Sex.....

    I wants love making with my GF its done first time. Plz give me some important tips about sex problem.Could we use condom because I and my GF never heard about that when anyone have sex first time then condom is necessary.
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    You have to use some form of birth control unless you are willing to risk pregnancy on the first time. A condom will limit that chance as well as protect against disease. Are you both virgins? When having sex, take your time and listen to her so she can tell you what feels good for her.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • DreamP346
      • Oct 2011
      • 2053

      First, use a condom, unless you are trying to get pregnant. This is an absolute necessity.

      Second, read a book about sex. Go to the Planned Parenthood website. There are tons of information about female/male anatomy, sex, pregnancy, etc. Make sure you know it all.

      Third, take your time. Don't rush it. Women need lots of foreplay. Try lots of oral and/or manual stimulation on her. Make she is ready.

      Fourth, be prepared for things to not work - you may lose your erection, she may find it too painful, etc. Anything can happen. So be prepared to stop if you have to.
      Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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