[atskitty2]

Are there things in your sex life you just haven't accomplished yet? A sexual bucket list, if you will?

Obviously these are things that we all accept may never be realized, for various reasons. But for fun, what's on your list of to-dos?

I was married for many years, with a less than fulfilling sex life so there are a few things for me. I would like to try bondage, from the sub and Dom position.
I have toyed with sex in public places, but I would really like to finish up the job
I have given foot jobs, but never to completion. There's another incomplete job!

There are of course, various positions and places and things less interesting I want to try, but those are the big ones I think. Seems like there was something else...

[DreamP346]

This is a tough one. There are many things on my list, but I can't do them because of my relationship with my husband. So, instead of a bucket list, they are more a fantasy.

[jen1447]

Okay, this thread has SO many possibilities lol ....I assume that both telling and asking are fair game?

First of all, sp346, having kinky fantasies that you didn't have before (and playing around at them with your hubs, even if you don't really carry them out fully) could be a bucket list item itself. I kind of like that idea tbh.

kitty, you're next!

I would like to try bondage, from the sub and Dom position.

Describe in more detail please. No need to be demure here.

I have toyed with sex in public places, but I would really like to finish up the job

Now you're talking! This is one I haven't really gotten up to satisfactorily either. Playing pattycake under the picnic table is one thing, but I'd kinda like to straight up eff in a public building or something lol. Anyway the idea excites me so I'll have to try to make it happen sooner or later.

I have given foot jobs, but never to completion. There's another incomplete job!

Not much I haven't done with feet, but I here you sister. Foot jobs are cool, but you can mix foot play/worship stuff with the public sex fantasy - I've gotten lots of foot love in cars and stuff like that. It's 'risky' in that you can be caught, but the consequences aren't that risky. Caught with your foot in somebody's mouth isn't exactly a capital offense (tho footjobbing would be).

As for me, honestly my bucket list has had a lot of items checked off of it already, but one direction I'd like to explore more is the whole endurance idea. I've had plenty of sex days/nights and sex weekends but I'd like to take that to the next level ....maybe day-long with no real interruptions, which I think would have to be moreso general sexual activity as opposed to going straight at it the whole time lol. And also I'd like to take 'the orgasm challenge' - see if I can have some astronomical number like 100 orgasms in a day! That would certainly be fun to try, even if I didn't succeed. I honestly think it's doable tho, just because if you're familiar with multiples you know that once you start having a lot of them they just come easier, and I think if you figured out how to not turn off the "I'm done for now" switch they could go on indefinitely. I'd have to have a partner do the counting tho (or a monitor if it was masturbation - sounds like a good job for BF ). I don't really count orgasms lol.

Another thing I'd like to try is extending them. I can have some pretty long ones but I've heard about having singles that last 2-3 minutes. The longest I've ever really seen (talking women here) is maybe a minute? If you string multiples together it can go much longer but a single that kept you in that zone for the whole time would be a revelation, some sort of new level of existence lol. I'd love to try to find that. I really don't know what the reality is tho, or how you'd even attempt it, so it would totally be rolling the dice.

So which should I try first? Maybe I'll blog my findings, ha-ha.

[rcoreyus]

I've done most things I want, but some more BDSM / D/S stuff would be nice, but my wife doesn't enjoy this sort of activity. We used to tie her up sometimes, but she told me she doesn't like it, so we stopped completely. She never liked dominating me in any way - though I'd enjoy that too.

[Romy]

Okay, this thread has SO many possibilities lol ....I assume that both telling and asking are fair game?

First of all, sp346, having kinky fantasies that you didn't have before (and playing around at them with your hubs, even if you don't really carry them out fully) could be a bucket list item itself. I kind of like that idea tbh.

kitty, you're next!


Describe in more detail please. No need to be demure here.


Now you're talking! This is one I haven't really gotten up to satisfactorily either. Playing pattycake under the picnic table is one thing, but I'd kinda like to straight up eff in a public building or something lol. Anyway the idea excites me so I'll have to try to make it happen sooner or later.


Not much I haven't done with feet, but I here you sister. Foot jobs are cool, but you can mix foot play/worship stuff with the public sex fantasy - I've gotten lots of foot love in cars and stuff like that. It's 'risky' in that you can be caught, but the consequences aren't that risky. Caught with your foot in somebody's mouth isn't exactly a capital offense (tho footjobbing would be).

As for me, honestly my bucket list has had a lot of items checked off of it already, but one direction I'd like to explore more is the whole endurance idea. I've had plenty of sex days/nights and sex weekends but I'd like to take that to the next level ....maybe day-long with no real interruptions, which I think would have to be moreso general sexual activity as opposed to going straight at it the whole time lol. And also I'd like to take 'the orgasm challenge' - see if I can have some astronomical number like 100 orgasms in a day! That would certainly be fun to try, even if I didn't succeed. I honestly think it's doable tho, just because if you're familiar with multiples you know that once you start having a lot of them they just come easier, and I think if you figured out how to not turn off the "I'm done for now" switch they could go on indefinitely. I'd have to have a partner do the counting tho (or a monitor if it was masturbation - sounds like a good job for BF ). I don't really count orgasms lol.

Another thing I'd like to try is extending them. I can have some pretty long ones but I've heard about having singles that last 2-3 minutes. The longest I've ever really seen (talking women here) is maybe a minute? If you string multiples together it can go much longer but a single that kept you in that zone for the whole time would be a revelation, some sort of new level of existence lol. I'd love to try to find that. I really don't know what the reality is tho, or how you'd even attempt it, so it would totally be rolling the dice.

So which should I try first? Maybe I'll blog my findings, ha-ha.

You've had an orgasm lasting around a minute....I'm jealous��what am I doing wrong��

[JackbNimble]

A trip to a "life style" resort. Would love a week of no clothers, sexy people, hot tubs and sex.

[jen1447]

You've had an orgasm lasting around a minute....I'm jealous��what am I doing wrong��

I don't think I have, but I've made them happen for girlfriends. It is rare tho. A minute is actually a really long time in 'O' time (lol), which is what makes me say what the hell why not try for three.