[katebazilevsky]

Well, no they're not the same thing, and it should last longer than 5-10 minutes, I see sex more as a synchronised dance between two lovers, not chaotic twitchings,, also orgasms can be reached during sex not only at the end, we don't use a stop watch, so there is no time limit as to how long sex can or should last. I really feel that you should rethink your philosophy on sex and orgasms, imo that is..

You are a veeeeeeery rich woman! With a veeeeeeeery rich husband! A synchronized dance after work - that is way cool. It's impossible. But you are veeeeeery rich. You don't have to work, huh?

[Patti-here]

You are a veeeeeeery rich woman! With a veeeeeeeery rich husband! A synchronized dance after work - that is way cool. It's impossible. But you are veeeeeery rich. You don't have to work, huh?

LOL,, I don't have a husband,, but yes I work, and a synchronized dance of love making can also be with another woman, I don't run an exclusive club for one gender only...

[TwistyDeb]

1. On average, how often do you have orgasms?
5 times a week

2. What's the most orgasms you've ever had in one day?
3

3. On average, how long does an orgasm last for you?
Around 8 seconds

4. What's the longest orgasm you've ever had?
Around 8 seconds

5. Do you ever ejaculate during orgasms?
Yes

6. Are you multi-orgasmic?
I wish!

7. If so, what's the average number of orgasms you have in a row?
N/A

8. What's the highest number of orgasms you've ever had in a row?
N/A

[Motorguy]

1. On average, how often do you have orgasms?
5 times a week

2. What's the most orgasms you've ever had in one day?
3

3. On average, how long does an orgasm last for you?
Around 8 seconds

4. What's the longest orgasm you've ever had?
Around 8 seconds

5. Do you ever ejaculate during orgasms?
Yes

6. Are you multi-orgasmic?
I wish!

7. If so, what's the average number of orgasms you have in a row?
N/A

8. What's the highest number of orgasms you've ever had in a row?
N/A

Hey Deb you need to work on those last two items but some time is needed for those lol.

[Motorguy]

Hooray! At least one normal guy. You wife is lucky!

Well thank you Kate, Yes I think she knows that almost 27 years now and still going strong we are good for each other.

[HerHusband]

It is very very common simply because it is more difficult for a woman to orgasm, it is not just touch and explode, and it is not always a guaranteed thing. Women are not all about physical reactions like men are, women are more emotional and more concerned about the feeling of attachment to the person she is having sex with. This make the actual orgasm less important than the emotions that are experienced during a sex session.

Its still a mystery to me after 2 decades of marriage how this works but she swears it is the way it is. I work HARD at trying to give her the O. She can only do it cowgirl and I have gotten close or a mini by masturbating her by the way she reacts and by admission. I would love nothing more than trading one of mine for one of hers because I think she would return it in spades. Plus I love her and want to see her happy.

[HerHusband]

Well, no they're not the same thing, and it should last longer than 5-10 minutes, I see sex more as a synchronised dance between two lovers, not chaotic twitchings,, also orgasms can be reached during sex not only at the end, we don't use a stop watch, so there is no time limit as to how long sex can or should last.

If we go at it for 40 minutes or so off and on in various ways and I have not come but am close am I imposing on her? She makes noises like she loves it both A and V but will tell me that I need to rest and let it go till later. As a disclaimer there are also times when I don't last a couple minutes. Not so much but when she does oral I can not last more than a few minutes or less.
Thread drift I know and am sorry. IF I could make her come more than once a day which her norm regardless of what I do Id give a Kings ransom. I love to see and feel her come as much as I love to.

[Something_Awesome]

If we go at it for 40 minutes or so off and on in various ways and I have not come but am close am I imposing on her? She makes noises like she loves it both A and V but will tell me that I need to rest and let it go till later. As a disclaimer there are also times when I don't last a couple minutes. Not so much but when she does oral I can not last more than a few minutes or less.
Thread drift I know and am sorry. IF I could make her come more than once a day which her norm regardless of what I do Id give a Kings ransom. I love to see and feel her come as much as I love to.

Do you do oral? My partner will usually orgasm around 5 times a session. Depends on the time of day. If it's late we will maybe stop at like 3. But she's had as much as eight if its earlier in the day.

[Motorguy]

Do you do oral? My partner will usually orgasm around 5 times a session. Depends on the time of day. If it's late we will maybe stop at like 3. But she's had as much as eight if its earlier in the day.

Wow you are doing something really right then some women are lucky to even have one. To think (1) not bad (2) pretty good (3) doing really good (4) omg off the hook (5) holy crap way off the hook. (5) she is in f -ing heaven more then (6) that just plain showing off then lol.

[Something_Awesome]

It's not technique. It's just that I enjoy it. Like... a lot. It's almost sick to be honest. Generally if you really love doing something, you will do it very well. There isn't necessarily a move or trick that I could share. When you love doing something, your passion for it just comes out.

But also know that I prefer giving oral to traditional sex. I would say our breakdown of time spent having regular sex vs me giving her oral is about 20% sex and 80% of me giving her oral.

When I spend a lot of time giving her oral, it sort of deprives me of having an orgasm, but the more deprived I get the more excited I get (I think we all do right, it's like being teased). The more excited I get the better oral I give because I get even more into it. So when it finally comes time to having sex I want it real bad because I have not orgasm'd yet, and I think it makes the sex better

EDIT: To be honest, there probably isn't a science to it. It's probably that we just click. Simple as that. We really enjoy sex together.