[oceanview2]

Hi everyone, I just found this amazing website yesterday and I love how everyone is so open and you all give great advice and I noticed no one judges anyone... so can you help me with some questions I have but do not know who to ask?

Okay here they are... I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and whenever we are kissing or playing around and I get turned on I get wet and I do not know how to control it. It is so embarrasing, especially when we are about to make love and he touches me and Im wet. he thinks it is weird too but he takes it as a complement because he can turn me on. Is there anyway i can control myself from getting wet quickly. I mean it happens even when we are just kissing. Is there something wrong with me?

Also, is it normal for a mans come to be thick and smell weird. I went down on him twice and I hated it because when he started to come it was thick and kinda weird smelling. I felt really bad because I just want to make him happy but I hate sucking him. My excuse to not go down on him anymore is I wear braces so it is too hard... haha he is fine with it but I know he really likes when I go down on him but I can not just tell him "baby I dont want to suck you because you are thick, funny tasting and smell weird" haha no way I would hurt his feelings. And because I do not like the way he tastes I am afraid to let him go down on me because I might taste funny too! This sex stuff is so freaken confussing for me! Is there foods i should try to get him to eat that would make him taste and smell better and less thick? Or is it not normal and does he need to get a check up?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

[ChelseaRenee]

I'm ALWAYS wet when me and my boyfriend fool around, as are most women! It's normal, and necessary for women as it's what lubricates us for sex (I can't IMAGINE having sex while dry- OUCH!!!!). He should feel lucky. I can just hear my boyfriend moan when he reaches down for the first time and feels me wet...gives me the goosebumps! hehe

As for him being thick and smelling weird- yeah, that sounds about right. If I've gotten him off a few times already it can be almost water, but for the most part, it's thick, white, and smells like bleach. Not too pleasant, but I kinda forget in the heat of the moment.

[LadyLane]

Ahh, funky spunk. Well, it happens, that's for sure. The texture I'm not sure if you can change, but the taste I've heard you can change. It has to do with what he eats. I think if you do a little internet research you can find which foods help change the taste.... but we're not talking about minutes, it takes hours or days to notice a change. And since you don't want to talk to him about it, you could just do it suggestively, like tell him you read that if he eats ___ his sperm would taste sweet and would he try that for you? Otherwise you could go with honesty, and tell him you thought it would taste different than it does and you don't really like it.

As for you getting excited... not to pun twice in the same post, but the wetter the better! Good for you! I don't get as wet as I used to, which used to be excessive, and I miss it a lot. Enjoy it while it's working!

[lime_lemur]

My boyfriend's cum smells like paper mache.. ;P It has the consistency and adhesiveness of it too, lol. Apparently they're all different.

[metboogie]

Your quick lubrication is great - it would make me feel like I was doing something right AND it makes for easy entry.

As for his texture and smell, have him change his diet a little. There are certain things that can affect the smell/taste. He should be drinking more water, etc.