[C]

To be adored and treasured as much as the first day you were married. To have patience if the weight is gained when we have children. Give us time to find ourselves again. If by chance that we lose a breast or some other mishap to still accept and love us and make us feel like a woman. To stay as sexual to us as the day we married him and in return we promise him that we will never change. To be willing to accept our faults as he must accept his. To accept our aging as he is aging too. To be our best friend and always there because both of us know that we have always been lovers and found the hot excitement in each other that has never changed. To have found this long ago and as a woman it was our duty not to let this get away on us. In return we promise that we will flirt with you and give you oral and be as sexual as you want the rest of our life. That does mean anything that we do not want but something that both of us want.

Lastly to never go away and when we get sentimental to hold us and comfort us and let us cry in your arms. To kiss away our tears and then when you do this to take our clothes off and continue kissing all the way down our naked bodies and suck and lick up out and give us oral until your tongue is sore and we swear that we will never close our legs again....Then turn us over and give us doggy until we bark our heads off and promise to do this two times a week.....

I think that has pretty much covered our life.....only I have been blessed and still have both breasts..

[kaylar]

Ladylane was spot on and Caroline added a few
good bits.

The bedroom is not to be forgotten, but we also
spend a lot of time in other room, other places,
doing other things.

Listening is important.
I am a world class listener. You can talk for ten
minutes, and I will hear every word you say, the
silence between the words, and what you mean.

This, of course, makes you feel very important.
And also, as a lawyer, is my stock in trade.

Most people don't listen to other people. Esp.
husbands who suffer maritial deafness. They
assume they 'know' what their wife is going
to say, or that she isn't going to say anything
'important' so tune her out.

She catches on; eventually saying something like
"I put the dog in the dishwasher"
or
"I murdered the postman with an axe."
and getting no response.

Hence, Listening is, as Ladylane posted it...#1

I also agree with 'be where you say you are'
and 'calling if you're going to be late'.

Marriages get right on the rocks as soon as
one of the parties reaches the stage where...
"I don't know if he's lying dead in a ditch somewhere,
and I don't care any more either."

A point tho' that both Ladylane and Caroline
missed is crucial;

'KNOW US.'
Know what we like and what we don't like, and
what we want, and don't want.

One of the most endearing things I was ever told
after gushing about that Space Ship One and the
ability to fly into space...

"You couldn't take the long driving."

[LadyLane]

That's so true, Kay!

My husband always, always has to ask for an aisle seat when we go to a show in NYC or a concert. Wherever they are, and however much they cost, he knows I get claustrophobic and panicky if stuck in a seat in the middle of a row without much room to pass.

I never asked him to do that; he just knows.

Just as he knew to remember exactly every detail of Angie Harmon's outfit when he once ran into her on the street... he was amazed by her beauty (they literally bumped into each other) but called me right away to tell me what she had on. Because he knew I would want to know.

[heatherh]

I am hearing a lot of oral oral oral for her and I have no problems with that but what if it is not reciprocated or she refuses to do that for her man or most anything else for him, just keep doing it for her. I have tried many different things non-sexual to just make her happy, joyful, etc but it still ends up where she wants for her and nothing else. Is that still a thing that goes back to how she was brought up beleiveing that performing oral on a man is degrading or gross for a woman to do?

[kaylar]

Timing
Women want a man who has impeccable timing.

A man who knows where and when to bring up a
discussion, when to leave you alone. When to
know you are watching your favourite program
so wait until it's over before interrupting.

A man who knows how to give bad news
and what to do after...

Who knows precisely when you are in the mood
and when you are not...
for anything and everything.

In short, a man who spends as much time
'reading' you as he would a poker opponent.

[kaylar]

Just thinking about it now...
in every relationship timing is crucial.

[lilly41]

amen ladylane i feel the same way . you go girl

[SorridLives]

I am hearing a lot of oral oral oral for her and I have no problems with that but what if it is not reciprocated or she refuses to do that for her man or most anything else for him, just keep doing it for her. I have tried many different things non-sexual to just make her happy, joyful, etc but it still ends up where she wants for her and nothing else. Is that still a thing that goes back to how she was brought up beleiveing that performing oral on a man is degrading or gross for a woman to do?

Unless she is over around 60 or over 60, I kind of doubt that "degrading" or "unpleasant" attitude toward fellatio is the case....but there are always exceptions.