[jen1447]

It's actually rather clever sounding in theory anyway ....I'm going to be with my two most physically compatible GFs, I'll be the receiver and they'll be the um administrators lol, and they will both try to keep count. Might even use a counter device or something, ha-ha. Also, I'll help them as much as I can by indicating I'm having one for sure whenever possible, either thru hand clasps or nodding or whatever I can manage (or shouting it lol). The plan is to do this three times over different days, one for each of us, so we all 'get ours' eventually (the admins will be focused only on giving for this exercise), but I go first because we seem to think I have the best shot. It should actually be kind of a fun contest, ha-ha.

I don't really think I'll get 100 or anywhere near, tbh, but I have a feeling 50 is in reach. I think I've maybe topped out at around 30 in my best escapades before if I had to guess, so 50 would just be a matter of taking my game to the next level.

[atskitty2]

I have this mental picture of you three in a large bed, and one of the ladies coming up for air, reaching over and clicking a bell at each orgasms completion...lmao!

[jns]

Work in some timeouts to have fun eating food and watching TV or something before going at it again. Maybe have one of the administrators go at it solo for an hour or so while the other one relaxes and schemes - eh - I mean works on being creative. The bell thing sounds funny - ding, ding ...... ding, ding, ding, ding. If you really contract your stomach muscles, maybe some situp training before will get you ready.

[rcoreyus]

video / audio tape and careful analysis later?

Notches on a bed post?!

[rcoreyus]

So, this isn't like normal love-making, you are sort of under time pressure. Do you get desensitized after a while so they will need to go to more and more intense stimulation over time, or can they just cycle through the few things that work best for you? Maybe you don't desensitize at all.

Interestingly my wife can usually only orgasm once in a day. The orgasms are very intense for her (she's given herself minor whiplash by flailing around), but once she is done, that's it, she doesn't want any more simulation for the rest of the day, and rarely on the following day - almost like a male response. Every once in a while she will have two in one evening, but its not something she particularly enjoys.

It's actually rather clever sounding in theory anyway ....I'm going to be with my two most physically compatible GFs, I'll be the receiver and they'll be the um administrators lol, and they will both try to keep count. Might even use a counter device or something, ha-ha. Also, I'll help them as much as I can by indicating I'm having one for sure whenever possible, either thru hand clasps or nodding or whatever I can manage (or shouting it lol). The plan is to do this three times over different days, one for each of us, so we all 'get ours' eventually (the admins will be focused only on giving for this exercise), but I go first because we seem to think I have the best shot. It should actually be kind of a fun contest, ha-ha.

I don't really think I'll get 100 or anywhere near, tbh, but I have a feeling 50 is in reach. I think I've maybe topped out at around 30 in my best escapades before if I had to guess, so 50 would just be a matter of taking my game to the next level.

[jen1447]

I have this mental picture of you three in a large bed, and one of the ladies coming up for air, reaching over and clicking a bell at each orgasms completion...lmao!

OMFG, that image is hilarious! Thanks, now I'm gonna be too busy laughing at the prospect to pull this off!

Work in some timeouts to have fun eating food and watching TV or something before going at it again. Maybe have one of the administrators go at it solo for an hour or so while the other one relaxes and schemes - eh - I mean works on being creative. The bell thing sounds funny - ding, ding ...... ding, ding, ding, ding. If you really contract your stomach muscles, maybe some situp training before will get you ready.

Yeah, it's definitely gonna be a marathon, not a sprint. I'm sure there will be lots of intervals and I'll even need quite a bit of rest ....it's really hard work actually. We'll take advantage of the full 24 hours like a highly trained team!

video / audio tape and careful analysis later?

Maybe BF can do that, ha-ha!

So, this isn't like normal love-making, you are sort of under time pressure. Do you get desensitized after a while so they will need to go to more and more intense stimulation over time, or can they just cycle through the few things that work best for you? Maybe you don't desensitize at all.

I really don'r desensitize at all. I mean, if I ran one of those magic wands on my clit for 8 hours I would, but ....how to say this without sounding corny ....I make love with my whole body and mind. Does that make any sense? This won't just be a matter of two girls taking turns doing oral like we're on a work schedule, tho it will naturally be more ends-based.

Interestingly my wife can usually only orgasm once in a day. The orgasms are very intense for her (she's given herself minor whiplash by flailing around), but once she is done, that's it, she doesn't want any more simulation for the rest of the day, and rarely on the following day - almost like a male response. Every once in a while she will have two in one evening, but its not something she particularly enjoys.

That's (one of) the great things about us - we're all different!

[atskitty2]

I knew I should've kept my silly sense of humor to myself. Lol

[JonDoe]

I would love for my wife to be seductive and tease me by getting me excited and playing hard to get.

I would also love to try role playing, light bondage and spanking with my wife. However, I haven't really discussed it with it her based on resistance to discuss other sexual topics in the past. I have asked her if she would like to be spanked, and she playfully said she thinks she would enjoy a good spanking, but gets aggravated the few times I have tried. The truth is I would be happy with vanilla sex at this point.

I also asked her if there was anything she thought was hot and wanted to try when she was reading the 50 Shades of Grey trilogy, but she was uncomfortable and refused to answer. Perhaps she thinks it is all make believe and nobody actually does these things in real life. I know it turned her on because she was masturbating very frequently.

She also refuses to share any sexual fantasy and has never bothered to ask me about my sexual fantasies either. She started to share one about a year ago, but now denies it vehemently.

It took more than 10 years to get her to be comfortable with receiving oral, but she loves it now, yet she is still not willing to perform oral on me after 25 years. She has done it very briefly a few times. In fact, she hasn't allowed me to give her oral in months after a discussion of how unfair it is to receive, but be so unwilling and selfish to reciprocate.

She was ****ed the first time I bought her a vibrator and threw it in the trash. Years later she suggested that I buy her a vibrator, but when I did she was ****ed again, argues with me about it, and said she didn't really mean it. The same is true about other things. She wants a TV in the bedroom, which I do not want, so she keeps telling me that we can watch adult movies together if we had a TV in the bedroom; however, she is offended if I suggest that we occasionally watch a so called female friendly adult movie when we are home alone, which is very rare. I know for a fact that she has watched some porn since we have been married.

A few months ago, as we were changing positions from her being on top, I asked what she was in the mood for and she responded (extremely uncharacteristically) that she wanted me to "roll her over and 'F' her in the 'A'", which is something we have not done together, then got ****ed with me and yelled "What the hell do you think you are doing? Don't ever try that again!" when I started to very gently do as she had asked. She even started using the "C" word while we were having sex a few months ago. She hates this word, as do many women, and I have never used it in her presence, so it made me feel uncomfortable.

[rcoreyus]

John - I think your wife is behaving unreasonably to the point of suggesting that she really needs therapy. Not wanting to be adventurous in bed is unfortunate, but understandable. Actively asking you for things, and then getting angry when you do them is either irrational or deliberately abusive. You should not need to be stuck with someone like that.

My wife and I have a fairly active sex life, but she has never been able to tell me what she wants. At least she doesn't get angry when I try new things (though in the past she did). My biggest problem is that its difficult to tell what she really likes. She is somewhat masochistic (though she won't at all admit it). Uncomfortably large toys, and anal will make her orgasm very quickly - but its difficult to tell the "hurts so good" form "just hurts" noises. She enjoys milder thing as well, and that is what we do almost all the time, but more intense stuff seems to drive her really wild - as long as I don't go too far.

[JonDoe]

John - I think your wife is behaving unreasonably to the point of suggesting that she really needs therapy. Not wanting to be adventurous in bed is unfortunate, but understandable. Actively asking you for things, and then getting angry when you do them is either irrational or deliberately abusive. You should not need to be stuck with someone like that.

I agree, it is very exhausting and frustrating.

Jen should start a boot camp for women like my wife.