[Lovcookie]

in general more sexually driven then most other ethnic groups? The two latino women I have experienced in a sexual relationship with were wild and extremely open and may I say very horny sexually. They were both drop dead gorgeous which may have biased my perception though but I doubt. I also noticed with both women (not a threesome, as they were at different periods in my life) had a fair amount of body hair (for a woman). I could feel noticeable hairs on there legs, thighs and stomachs arms, and even butt on one of them. I found I actually liked this natural body hair feel. Maybe because it was different. They were women that could go non stop and orgasm repeatedly which was fantastic.

[kira]

You just described every woman in my family, especially my mom's side, until they reach a certain age. My family is a mix of 50% german, 25-50% scottish(mostly mom's side), and 25-50% native american (all dad's side).

[jen1447]

I'd say that while it seems tempting to categorize various ethinic types as this or that, it rarely proves true in terms of such broad associations. You may just be thinking of attitude - culture may sort of dictate 'sassyness' or that perception to Latino women, but when it comes to sexuality, you'll get behaviors all across the board. I've known very sexually wild but shy women, very gregarious women who were not equally sexually charged, etc., etc.

[jns]

From my experience, as limited as it is, I did not find Latinas to be more sexual than women of other ethnic groups. This is from having two Latina girlfriends years ago and other shorter relationships with Latinas.

[DreamP346]

The sexual Latina woman is the same stereotype as the hypersexualized black male 100 years ago. Back then, they believed black men were so sexual, they may lose control. White people had to protect their white woman against this sexually crazed black man. Now we look back at that and think how ignorance that thinking was. However, the reality is that even to this day, we still over sexualize the black male (just look at the thread about Have you had sex with a black man).

Making blanket assumptions based on a small sample is a slippery slope that leads to prejudicial thinking. My last two boyfriends were fairly short and liked giving oral so short men must like oral sex a lot. My last two boyfriends were left handed and both liked sex doggy style so left handed men must like sex doggy style. My last 2 boyfriends had long noses and didn't have much of a sex drive, so short nosed men hove low libidos. As you can see, none of this makes sense, just like making assumptions about an entire ethnic group based on 2 people doesn't make sense.

BTW, Latina women find this stereotype very offensive.

[Lovcookie]

No prejudice intended. I don't tolerate racial prejudice. Technically in my opinion the people from Latin America or heritage are not a race but a mix of many peoples. I think this mix contributes to why I think this group is so gorgeous. My question sprung from colleges who spent time in Latin America as well as my two (and only two) experiences. Their comments seemed to point to a certain culture they experience while there. I wanted to add I don't think Latinas are hairy either. I was just stating the two I had relations with were. They had beautiful soft skin and were so sexy.

[Changotote]

Jen1447 is a feminist hypocrite. When you say latinas are more sexual (they are, even the conquistadores spoke about it) she says its a problematic taboo to sexualize women based on their race, then she turns around and hypersexualizes black men because of the taboo and their skin color, but gets her panties in a bunch over men doing the same for latinas. She says black men are more sexual but latinas are not? Lol. Its obvious she likes to objectify men but gets angry when men do the same to women. Modern western woman in a nut shell. Yes Latinas are vastly more nymphomaniac. Why? Who knows. They've been that way even longer than when the Europeans arrived. And the darker Morena's with less European blood are the most horny of all. I speak from A LOT of experience

[Changotote]

Jen1447 is a feminist hypocrite. When you say latinas are more sexual (they are, even the conquistadores spoke about it) she says its a problematic taboo to sexualize women based on their race, then she turns around and hypersexualizes black men because of the taboo and their skin color, but gets her panties in a bunch over men doing the same for latinas. She says black men are more sexual but latinas are not? Lol. Its obvious she likes to objectify men but gets angry when men do the same to women. Modern western woman in a nut shell. Yes Latinas are vastly more nymphomaniac. Why? Who knows. They've been that way even longer than when the Europeans arrived. And the darker Morena's with less European blood are the most horny of all. I speak from A LOT of experience

Very plantation owner's wife mentality. Dismissing an actual black man telling you he finds the topic very offensive, and she dismisses him, ans then turns around and tells men that they are problematic for asking a question and not even exposijg a fantasy. The hypocricy is disgusting

[Acesup]

So during my days in the lifestyle, various lifestyles really, I had the pleasure of being with many different kids of women, Chicana, Cherokee, Black, Asian, White etc. Actually before I got into the lifestyle my first really long serious post college relationship was almost four years with a Chicana girl.

What I saw that made certain women more sexual across the different ethnic and racial and cultural differences was how comfortable they were with their bodies and their sexuality. Granted if you are in the lifestyle having open relationships and FWBs and going to BDSM parties and stuff you are probably a base level of comfortable and sexual already. But the women who were the most comfortable with themselves were the most sexually outgoing and primal and adventurous and kinky. That seemed to have no correlation to the race.

That being said, I will say my longtime Chicana girlfriend **** she was quite sexual and outgoing and aggressive sexually and had lots of fantasies and kinks she liked to explore with me. I don't know if any of that was cultural but she had no sexual hangups or guilt about enjoying sex at all. She actually liked watching porn while I went down on her and liked having sex with the windows open and in some semi public places. She would say things sometimes in the middle of sex that were pretty **** shocking especially for me at like 23 at the time and she was 28. That girl had a filthy mouth on her and I loved it. Probably why more than 20 years later the only Spanish I remember from being with her are the bad words. Can't form a sentence in Spanish to save my life but I'll never forget panocha. And I could never look at Chi Chi's restaurants the same way ever again.

But her sexually liberated nature also proved to be a double edged sword I discovered. She had actually come from a short but abusive marriage before she met me. I guess her very sexual nature with me was part of her rediscovering herself and her body and her autonomy and I loved that and was happy to be a part of her exploring her sexuality with me. And all the while she went back to college and I helped pay the living expenses for her to do that. But then her last semester of college she goes to study abroad and reads Sylvia Plath and gets the notion in her head that nobody is going to tell her what to do with her own body so she doesn't have to play by any rules. So she spent that entire last semester she was in England cheating on me with a married English guy and then comes home, tells me about it after the fact and expects me to be cool with it and accept it because nobody is going to limit what she can do with her body. I told her I'm not telling her what to do with her body but it goes both ways and if you want to be with me you have to voluntarily choose that what you want to do with your body is only share it with me. That is the voluntary price of admission and I don't think that is being oppressive. And not telling me about it until afterwards robs me of the choice to do what i want to do with my body and shows enormous disrespect. So needless to say we broke up my self esteem was destroyed and I spent the better part of the next decade self medicating with girls of every kind.

But the point is the Chicana women I have been with were very very sexual, but so were other types of women i have been with of other races. If anything I think its either an individual thing of who is most comfortable and embracing of their own sexuality or it might be a slightly cultural thing that Chicana women are brought up to be more comfortable with their bodies. I can't really speak to that. Either way I don't think its anything genetic or biological.