[Romy]

This is an interesting question, with really no solid unique answer. As with most things related to sex, what is good, bad, right, or wrong, is very subjective. Nonetheless, and fr what is worth, I will offer my opinion as a married man. I am one of those men who absolutely love finishing on the wife's face. That's not to say that internal ejaculation are not excellent (they are), it's just my personal preference to see my wife's pretty face with all that cum. Now, examining why that is, I believe the reasons are varied but all valid:
1. We (men) like to see ourselves ejaculate a lot. It's a sign of virility. We equate that as being good potent lovers. Whether that is correct or not, that's just what we think (it's kind of the penis size issue)
2. Seeing the ejaculate on the loved one's face tells us that she enjoys every part of us and that she really likes having sex with us.
3. It tells us that she really cares about our orgasm as much as we care about hers. We want to think that she wants us to cum so bad that she wants to see it, taste it, etc. That's why there's no better facial than one that is asked for. If I had to convince the wife to let me do it I would not enjoy it as much. In fact, if I saw her being completely disgusted by it and just doing it to quiet me, I would not want to do it at all.

Thank you for sharing your opinion elmanowar. Everything you've written is exactly how my SO thinks.

[midnightwishes]

I agree that maybe porn has made it popular. I've never given a facial myself, but it sounds like it would be hot, and now I want to try it. I do get turned on when my boyfriend cums on me. Watching a guy cum is a huge turn on for me. I also like eating it, and I know he loves watching it, too.

[muffin70]

last night I came over my wifes bottom.... every night before bed I check my wifes bottom to see if she has any spots / pimples that I can squeeze (she does the same to me regularly) and while massaging her bottom with body lotion I slipped my middle finger down a bit... usually she will 'close up' and tell me she is not interested, but last night she let me proceed and she got turned on in a hurry as I was fingering her clit.. I was turned on too and a few seconds after she had orgasmed I ejaculated over her butt cheeks!
Funny thing is she didn't notice - I wiped her butt cheeks clean and she rolled over and saw my drooping penis and asked if I had cum!

[effy2014]

This is an interesting question, with really no solid unique answer. As with most things related to sex, what is good, bad, right, or wrong, is very subjective. Nonetheless, and fr what is worth, I will offer my opinion as a married man.

An insightful and respectful first post elmanowar. Welcome to the forum.

[Titus Pullo]

I have found that my wife and I have become more adventurous over time regarding where I cum. I consider it a sign that we are totally comfortable with each other and are able to suggest anything nowadays and I'm not upset with the occasional 'no'.

I love cumming inside my wife, it's a wonderful feeling of togetherness but we also love being downright erotic when the mood is right. The strangest request I've had from my wife was toward the end of impromptu sex at lunch in her office. She took off one of her boots, wrapped me in it and finished me off. She then put her boot back on and told me she had to visit clients she really disliked. The knowledge she was 'wearing' a huge load in her boot would afford her a wry smile during the meeting. She was in a highly combustible mood when she got home too!

My advice is to get to know your partner and be happy with whatever they are comfortable with.

[Mr. Inquisitive]

I may have stated this somewhere before but here I go again.

In my opinion nothing beats the feeling I get when I cum in my wife. It is just a more intense orgasm and it leaves me feeling quite drained afterward. This is her favourite too as it often times triggers her orgasm so this is the prefered manner in which we like to "finish". That being said there is a certain pleasure involved with the old pull out and fire method.

For me I can't say I have an actual reason why I like to cum on my wifes face, breast, back stomach etc. For me its not a dominance, porn, acceptance or virility thing, its really a visual thing. Looking at the aftermath of my cum on my wife is just hot and sexy.

There is also a fun aspect to pulling out and cumming on her. My aim is pretty good but that first blast is powerful and usually quite unpredicatable. There is kind of a, "where will this first shot end up" anticipation to it. When it is time for a facial, it almost always goes clear over her head no matter how I aim. When shooting on her back it can go anywhere from the middle of her back, to her shoulder, to in her hair or sometimes right over her head. With the breasts it almost always hits her in the neck and flows down between her breasts like a river between two mountains, but she occasionally ends up with a pair of pearly shoulder straps. Pulling out in missionary it could be her face, neck, breast, belly button, armpit, anywhere really, that gets the first stream. No two climaxes are the same, which come to think of it now, may be the reason for my enjoyment of them.

Either way when the orgasm subsides and I examine the aftermath she always looks so sexy to me, whether its dripping off her breasts of gluing one eye shut. I don't have to ejaculate on her for it to be sexy either. She doesn't like to swallow so she lets me cum in her mouth and lets its run out, and down my shaft. Other times she will direct it at her open mouth or her pursed lips and just stroke away making mess of her lips, my thighs, her hands, the bedsheets. During a handjob she will finish me off onto my own stomach or just have it running down her hands all of which are sexy to me.

Although she is not really a fan of cum, especially in her mouth, she is up for some good messy fun and really enjoys pleasing me. As long as it is done in a respectful manner and she knows what is coming, she really has no issue. I always help her with the cleanup and make sure to give her a nice passionate kiss when its all over (sometimes difficult to do after an overly explosive facial haha). I'm getting all hot thinking about this. I think I'll go visit her on lunch.

[Romy]

Sometimes my SO will cum over my mouth while my lips are closed then I open them and allow his semen to slowly leak into my mouth then I kiss him and we share his deposit between us. We simply like to mix things up. I love his sperm both deep inside me and on me as does he.

[Hell on Wheels]

My wife loves me to cum on her breasts and many ways, including on her lips and tongue while her mouth is just slightly open while my I am just outside, and then lightly push it back out onto my erection. But her favorite may be when I make love to her breasts as she holds them together. She absolutely loves the boob ********. It lands on her neck and between her breasts as I go back and forth between. As soon as I finish I immediately slide down and get her off orally while she lubes up and stimulates her big, beautiful **** with it.

She does love me to cum on her almost everywhere except her hair, though she will not swallow when I cum in her mouth. It would be nice but if it is not enjoyable for her, I can easily do without it. So many other wonderful things she will do

[SUZE]

I love it when he - my husband -cums inside of me

[NJHubby]

I like to cum on my wife's butt