[Romy]

Romy,,
I got to do it again on yesterday during a very HOT! lovemaking session we had during the middle of the day and she rubbed it all in.Don't know what happen to her,but when I got back from the store on yesterday and soon as I walked into the house,she started telling me how she needed me right then.I also had to nurse her as well,which was AWESOME!!

I'm really happy for you Bootsie. I'm glad you were able to share it with us

[Motorguy]

Romy,,
I got to do it again on yesterday during a very HOT! lovemaking session we had during the middle of the day and she rubbed it all in.Don't know what happen to her,but when I got back from the store on yesterday and soon as I walked into the house,she started telling me how she needed me right then.I also had to nurse her as well,which was AWESOME!!

Sounds like a good time for you both wow. Nothing better then a afternoon lovemaking fun with wife or girl friend.

[Romy]

I don't know when I'm ever going to have sex again and the thought is really depressing. I'm might have to stop visiting this website soon

You know, I clearly remember the last time my SO and I had sex and had I known then that it would be the last time in a long time, I would have held onto every second that little bit longer.......

Those of you having sex, enjoy yourselves and make the most of it I'm jealous!!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Oh Romy...

I so know this is so hard for you. Don't you dare leave here, we are all here for you and we don't want to change that, now or ever.

Please, please, please, look at these as strength of good memories and strength.

We won't give up on you, don't you give up on time.

[cathygirl]

I'm a little late to this thread, but it does prompt a few thoughts I've never expressed here.

There was a time when I thought of semen as kind of icky, messy, and slightly unpleasant. The way it feels on my hands, for example, is unlike anything else. But my husband and I talk about EVERYTHING and we got to talking about it one day. I'd never told him I thought it was icky, it was just a thought in the back of my mind. I've always accepted him ejaculating in my mouth, for example. He told me that to him, as a man, the fact that I did that and didn't act like it was a nasty thing made him feel like I fully accepted him and everything about him. Before we were married he had a GF that treated semen like excrement or something, and it really hurt his feelings. When I realized how very personal it was and how good my acceptance made him feel, I completely lost any aversion to semen. It is him, and it is the product of his arousal and enjoyment. I love when he is aroused and I love when he cums.

Having said that, I really don't want it all over my face or in my hair. Just as I like chocolate pudding, I don't want it all over my face or in my hair. Thankfully, he has never tried to emulate the porn stars and wanted to do that. So he cums in three places (all openings) or if I masturbate him in my hands or on my tummy or vulva. That's pretty much it. And we both like it. If he insisted that he had to do it all over my face and in my hair it would feel a little like humiliation. Some people may get off on that kind of feeling, but I don't. I like it that we both are very excited at whatever it is that excites the other and are respectful and accepting of each other.

[a_dub]

I don't know when I'm ever going to have sex again

Welcome to a [single] man's world Romy! Except for the 2 months of my life I was in a relationship, every day I've woken up with the fear that I'd possibly die before I got some again. But you end up adapting. Sex becomes less important, more theoretical, an illusion or a myth. It becomes second nature to expect that sex is not a reality.

But you have two things I don't... Breasts! You can get some action anytime. Much harder when you have a penis. Just last week I ended a months long cold streak, and the next morning i discovered I was merely a drunken mistake. The world is not equal between the genders, for alot of men, having sex is a herculean task.

You'll get through it, one way or another.

[Romy]

I can assure you I'm not trying to emulate porn stars. I've never done this with any other man, it's not something we do all the time, just something we add to the mix to keep things exciting. If at any time I felt degraded or cheap I wouldn't participate in the act and as I've said before it's me, not my SO who decides if it's going to happen. He's never asked me to do it. I love that my SO and I can be open, try things we haven't before and it's all done in a very loving, safe environment.

For the record, we are both extremely financially secure, high standing citizens and at no time feel we need to emulate cheap porn stars....I'm a little over hearing that the only reason women want to be hair free below is because of porn - ummmm, no.....I can't stand hair on me, never have and it's because of my preference and not wanting to look like a porn star that I stay clean and hair free. I take part in certain sex acts with my SO because I love him more than I've loved anyone else and I'm open minded to try new things - far from being a prude. My SO and I can distinguish from actually making love and having some hot, dirty, naughty, sweaty, messy sex.

If my SO is happy to have my secretions all over him and sometimes all over his face, I have no problem having his semen on my face from time to time. And like I've said before, he finds it such a turn on because most people would agree I have a very pretty face and to stand in front of the mirror and see the man I love's cum all over it then to rub it onto to his face and go from there....it's actually beautiful and shows my SO that I truly accept all of him as he does me.

[Texasred45]

Well, I'm coming (no pun intended...) very late to this thread, but as a man, I found it interesting.
And I wanted to add that I had until very recently a gf who loved for me to cumulative on her - it was her preference, and she liked it very much if I came on her breasts or her face or on her vaginal. This was something I first did because she asked me to, but then it became something I enjoyed too.

[Hell on Wheels]

I can assure you I'm not trying to emulate porn stars. I've never done this with any other man, it's not something we do all the time, just something we add to the mix to keep things exciting. If at any time I felt degraded or cheap I wouldn't participate in the act and as I've said before it's me, not my SO who decides if it's going to happen. He's never asked me to do it. I love that my SO and I can be open, try things we haven't before and it's all done in a very loving, safe environment.

For the record, we are both extremely financially secure, high standing citizens and at no time feel we need to emulate cheap porn stars....I'm a little over hearing that the only reason women want to be hair free below is because of porn - ummmm, no.....I can't stand hair on me, never have and it's because of my preference and not wanting to look like a porn star that I stay clean and hair free. I take part in certain sex acts with my SO because I love him more than I've loved anyone else and I'm open minded to try new things - far from being a prude. My SO and I can distinguish from actually making love and having some hot, dirty, naughty, sweaty, messy sex.

If my SO is happy to have my secretions all over him and sometimes all over his face, I have no problem having his semen on my face from time to time. And like I've said before, he finds it such a turn on because most people would agree I have a very pretty face and to stand in front of the mirror and see the man I love's cum all over it then to rub it onto to his face and go from there....it's actually beautiful and shows my SO that I truly accept all of him as he does me.

Well said. Sounds like a great relationship and one that many would do well to emulate, rather than question, I think.

[muffin70]

well I got into trouble the other night.... my wife had fallen asleep on the couch in her nightie and her right breast was hanging out and turning me on. I was sitting on the chair next to her, so pulled my pants down and started to touch myself, then stood over her as I masturbated close to her right breast. I quickly pulled out a somewhat used handkerchief from my jeans pocket but it was too late as a couple of squirts landed on the couch and her nightie before I could stop them with the handkerchief..... she woke up as I was finishing off and asked what happened - then she saw me wiping the end of my penis and the stream of cum on her nightie and she was not happy!